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  • misskitty3
    Senior Member
    • Nov 2007
    • 108

    need ideas!!

    Hello everyone,

    I've missed these boards... lol!

    I'm writing because I have a new boyfriend and boy is he creative in the bedroom. He likes a lot of rough stuff and I'm down for anything... I'm just not up to his level in regards to thinking of new raunchy, dirty, rough sex ideas... can anyone help?!
  • CharlesV
    Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 43

    Tie him up and tease the out of him, for 90 minutes. This will rock his world.

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    • misskitty3
      Senior Member
      • Nov 2007
      • 108

      yes, that is definitely on the agenda. what exactly can I do to effectively tease him? 90 minutes is a long time

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      • rcoreyus
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2007
        • 4369

        With him tied up, give him oral until he almost finishes, then stop, make him give you oral for a while. Then repeat. Eventually finish him, but only after he has given you several orgasms that way.

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        • justadudeguy
          Junior Member
          • Oct 2010
          • 7

          inspired by the other threads against it.....scope his porn or internet history, that will tell you a lot about what he likes, and trust me if you surprise him with whatever he's been checking out on his time without him expecting it, he's going to be pretty stoked, instead of being jealous, think of it as collecting intel.

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          • Jimbeau
            Senior Member
            • Oct 2010
            • 169

            Originally posted by justadudeguy
            inspired by the other threads against it.....scope his porn or internet history, that will tell you a lot about what he likes, and trust me if you surprise him with whatever he's been checking out on his time without him expecting it, he's going to be pretty stoked, instead of being jealous, think of it as collecting intel.
            Ugh, I don't think that's a very good idea. Sometimes guys enjoy watching things they'd never do in real life and would be mortified about you knowing. Put the shoe on the other foot, how would you like him snooping around on you. Also, if he finds out this could be easily misunderstood as a sign of "monitoring" or insecurity.

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            • Jimbeau
              Senior Member
              • Oct 2010
              • 169

              Tie him up doggy style and go at him in the bum with a well lubed strap-on. I'm sure that'll take you up a few notches in the "bad girl" department.

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              • Katie127
                Member
                • Oct 2010
                • 12

                Strap on! Haha I kid.

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