[Cisco2010]

I want to make a genuine effor to please my girl in bed. We've been going out for 3 months (I'm 33, she's 27) and the sex has been "great" but I want to take it to a different plateau, especially pleasing her sensually and of course sexually.

I perform cunnilingus on her and she does get an orgasm. I do a little of forplay beforehand by kissing her on the neck, ears, breasts and back. I do also speak French to her, she says it tickles her.

However, I want to have a much better repetoire. I want to take her on a sensual journey that will give her a monstreous orgams.

Suggestions are welcomed, thank you.

[lizzardb63]

Why don't you ask her? She's the only one that knows.

[LanaBear]

I agree with lizzard, ask her...

Monster orgasms... Have the two of you explored her g-spot? Licking and nibbling every inch of her body.

To be honest, it sounds like you are doing a fine job though, but the only way you will know is to ask her if there is anything that she wants and you are not doing...

[Cisco2010]

I agree with lizzard, ask her...

Monster orgasms... Have the two of you explored her g-spot? Licking and nibbling every inch of her body.

To be honest, it sounds like you are doing a fine job though, but the only way you will know is to ask her if there is anything that she wants and you are not doing...

Merci! I will do some "exploring"

[Guest]

communication！

[caterpillar79]

Include some sensual massage in your foreplay.

[Tiptopshape]

It'll be more pleasurable if you both try to discover anything that turns her on...After you've done the deed, you can ask her which part of the foreplay that she loves the most and what would make her more pleased in bed.

[WildChild]

Good on you! Depends on what the two of you are into. Your mention of pleasing her sensually makes me think you might like the books, Extended Massive Orgasm, One Hour Orgasm, The Orgasm Bible and Tantra Simple and Sexy.

[Jimbeau]

I hope you're letting her reciprocate. A lot of women find it a real turn on knowing that they're turning you on. In a relationship this new there is a risk your partner can feel overwhelmed or worse, over-controlled.

[WannaBee]

Talking to her is definitely a good idea.
But sometimes one wants to surprise her! And then it is not such a smart move to have it talked over beforehand.
So here are a some suggestions you could try:

1) Get a scarf that's made of silk, don't spend too much on it. Use it on her skin for some time and then wrap it around her eyes to blindfold her. (Of course you could use something else, but it is imho a lot less scary for her, if you use something she knows and that she can just rip off.) Make sure the scarf is long enough. Try it on yourself before to see if it works.
Tell her: "I want to take you to a magical place" while you put it around her head. Make it also clear to her, that she can take it off at any time she wants.

Now that she can't see, take you TIME. Go really, really slow. Use your tongue a lot.

Enjoy!

If I were you, I would't ask here every other minute if she was alright. She will let you know if she's not comfortable.

1b) Offer yourself as abductee the next time. Experiment.

1c) After you have done this a few times, I suggest something I recently tried. Get some Cold joghurt (or anything like it) and put a tiny amount somewhere on her tummy. Use your tongue to consume it. Works really well, while she's blindfolded and does not know what you are going to do. Do not put it on the most sensible parts of her body at first. Never use more than a teaspoon, small quanitities suffice.

2) If you have a bath tub, I suggest you have a bath together.
Maybe try some oral.