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Do I have vaginismus?
Could I be too small or just have vaginismus. If I feel down down there my walls contract a little, even if I'm not trying/ if I'm not nervous...and when my doctor did my check-up I contracted a little and it hurted really bad for them to check down there. Is it that I'm too small, just nervous, or does it sound like vaginismus? -
If there are psychological issues then it may be best speaking to a professional councillor.
It may not be a problem until it stops enjoyment of any sexual activity. Wait and see for the right guy to come along. Although, if you believe you have a problem in your mind beforehand, then it could create problems that aren't there.Comment
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Well ThanksIf there are psychological issues then it may be best speaking to a professional councillor.
It may not be a problem until it stops enjoyment of any sexual activity. Wait and see for the right guy to come along. Although, if you believe you have a problem in your mind beforehand, then it could create problems that aren't there.
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From what I saw about vaginismus on a show, it hurt for her to even touch herself, not even necessarily entering at all. It extreme pain, at the smallest contact of any kind. Mabye there are different levels of this disorder, don't know. I saw a segment on this on the show Strange Sex. It was good, mbye there's a video of it online somewhere?Comment
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ThanksFrom what I saw about vaginismus on a show, it hurt for her to even touch herself, not even necessarily entering at all. It extreme pain, at the smallest contact of any kind. Mabye there are different levels of this disorder, don't know. I saw a segment on this on the show Strange Sex. It was good, mbye there's a video of it online somewhere?
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