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  • collegegirl2010
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2010
    • 313

    Do I have vaginismus?

    Could I be too small or just have vaginismus. If I feel down down there my walls contract a little, even if I'm not trying/ if I'm not nervous...and when my doctor did my check-up I contracted a little and it hurted really bad for them to check down there. Is it that I'm too small, just nervous, or does it sound like vaginismus?
  • Little.Chuck
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    • May 2010
    • 1392

    It could be any of those things, why dont you have a talk with your GP?

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    • collegegirl2010
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2010
      • 313

      Originally posted by Little.Chuck
      It could be any of those things, why dont you have a talk with your GP?
      Thanks and I'll try and talk to my GP...

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      • masterchief
        Member
        • Sep 2010
        • 41

        Originally posted by collegegirl2010
        Could I be too small or just have vaginismus.
        Is it a problem during sex?

        Chances of being "too small" is very rare. If you are fully aroused then there should issue with above average guys.

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        • collegegirl2010
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2010
          • 313

          Originally posted by masterchief
          Is it a problem during sex?

          Chances of being "too small" is very rare. If you are fully aroused then there should issue with above average guys.
          well I'm not sexual yet because I'm a virgin, but I was digitally assaulted before, do you think that could be my problem?

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          • masterchief
            Member
            • Sep 2010
            • 41

            If there are psychological issues then it may be best speaking to a professional councillor.

            It may not be a problem until it stops enjoyment of any sexual activity. Wait and see for the right guy to come along. Although, if you believe you have a problem in your mind beforehand, then it could create problems that aren't there.

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            • collegegirl2010
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2010
              • 313

              Originally posted by masterchief
              If there are psychological issues then it may be best speaking to a professional councillor.

              It may not be a problem until it stops enjoyment of any sexual activity. Wait and see for the right guy to come along. Although, if you believe you have a problem in your mind beforehand, then it could create problems that aren't there.
              Well Thanks

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              • rhiannon34
                Senior Member
                • Mar 2010
                • 147

                From what I saw about vaginismus on a show, it hurt for her to even touch herself, not even necessarily entering at all. It extreme pain, at the smallest contact of any kind. Mabye there are different levels of this disorder, don't know. I saw a segment on this on the show Strange Sex. It was good, mbye there's a video of it online somewhere?

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                • collegegirl2010
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                  • Jul 2010
                  • 313

                  Originally posted by rhiannon34
                  From what I saw about vaginismus on a show, it hurt for her to even touch herself, not even necessarily entering at all. It extreme pain, at the smallest contact of any kind. Mabye there are different levels of this disorder, don't know. I saw a segment on this on the show Strange Sex. It was good, mbye there's a video of it online somewhere?
                  Thanks

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