[C-bomb]

My wife of 20 years and I enjoy and have always enjoyed a very loving and highly monogomus sexual relationship.

During the last 6 months we have both found pleasure in having my fingers inserted inside her vagina at the same time we make love. Initially this started with just one finger and my penis at the same time, but now we have worked up to four fingers (all the way to my palm) and my penis at the same time while making love. I often open my hand wide during this position and it sends her crazy and it feels nice for me as well.

My wife enjoys this as do I but as can be expected this has had a stretching effect over time and she is now quite loose. Actually, she has become incredibly loose. I am not against this and enjoy her loose vagina and she is still able to orgasm during normal penetration so we are both still very satisfied and happy.

I suppose reflecting this may sound painful but there is no pain involved and we are not into pain, she just happens to enjoy being quite full and a little stretched. Mentally I also find this very exciting so we are quite compatible.

My question I suppose is for the looser girls out there. At the rate we are going do you think that there will come a time where she will be so large that normal intercourse may not give her pleasure?

We have discussed it and I know she still enjoyes normal sex (and doesn't want to stop the stretchy games) but she is becoming looser and looser and I don't know if in time my little 6 incher will still do the trick if we continue in this so far pleasurable activity. For me it is no concern, I enjoy her regardless and can never see this changing regardless how much looser she becomes. Sometimes now I can hardly tell if I am inside her but again this does not worry me in the slightest and as long as she is happy so am I. She has no feelings of self conciousness about her large so there are no problems here.

[ItsASecret]

Keep in mind that she is not actually loose. To be loose you would physically have to rip her skin, and insert another section to physically make her vulva "longer"...thereby making it loose skin. If you have not done that then your wife has the same size of vaginal hole as she began sex with. What your wife is actually experiencing in is quite simply muscle relaxation. Think about it...babies come out of there (even if you do not have kids)...that vaginal skin it is like a rubber band when it comes to tensile strength. All you are doing is making the muscles get used to the pressure of having the extra fingers.

[Gigi007]

If you are concerned about her vagina getting too loose, you can talk to her about Kegel excercises. These are excercises meant to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, and work the muscles in the vagina, making it stronger and "tighter".

[C-bomb]

Keep in mind that she is not actually loose.....

What your wife is actually experiencing in is quite simply muscle relaxation.....

Think about it...babies come out of there (even if you do not have kids)...

I am sure there is relaxation going on fur sure but by her own admission, her vagina has become very very loose. Now having said this, I don't mean it in a derogatory way at all, I really adore her new size and I actually find her looseness incredibly sexy and very enjoyable - but there is no doubt at all that her vagina has very much increased in size regardless of if, due to popular opinion, that stretching won't do this. She has had three children and retuned to pre-baby size within a few months of each - but what is going on now is very different.

Back to the true nature of my question, if as I suspect we are gradually increasing her size, do you think she will still gain enjoyment from straight intercourse? I am not concerned with the way she feels to me, I am just a little concerned that one day she might find I just don't offer enough friction to give her the same level of pleasure.

I spoke to her about it again in the last couple of days and re-assured her that she still feels amazing and I asked her if she wanted to stop the stretching and she said no.

Are there any ladies out there that can relate to being large down there and comment on if reduced friction made for less enjoyable sex (for them)? To put her size into perspective she can insert a 2-1/2" wide dildo quite easy with very little foreplay. Even visually she is starting to look different.

[ItsASecret]

Get her to do Kegals if you want her to increase the chances of higher tone and "friction" going on no matter the outcome of the physical difference you say she is now going through. The more tone it is the more responsive it is in regards to muscles gripping and relaxing when you want them to.

[fancyfree]

Sounds to me like you two have a very close and sharing relationship. Much like the one of me and my husband of 17 years. We have 4 kids together and have always enjoyed sexual intercourse and we both get off simply with the entense joy and satisfaction that our closeness and being together provides. We did things similar to you and your wife except we started about 12 years earlier on in our marriage when our oldest was about 4. One finger two fingers and then an entire fist with his penis inserted into his hand that is in my vagina. We regularly stretch my vagina wide enough to fit both of his fists into me. I love the feeling and he loves to excitement. We have purchased some very large toys as well. Some as big and round as. 32oz gatorade bottle. Over last 10 years I have no adverse affects of our activities and my gyno says I am normal and healthy as a horse everytime I go in for my yearly exam. In short, if you both enjoy it then I say do what makes you happy as it will make your relationship that much stronger in the long run. We also found good reading in a book by deborah addington (I believe) entitled "a hand in the bush" you might enjoy it.

[Little]

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