[Gigi007]

I enjoy sex. A lot. I love my boyfriend, I love the physical intimacy we share, I love doing it. However, I have never been able to orgasm during sex. I can make myself orgasm, he can make me orgasm in other ways, but when it comes to sex: nothing. I love the feeling I get from sex, but there's no orgasm. Why is this? I heard that in order to make a girl orgasm during sex, some girls need to have their clitoris stimulated. I've tried that, and it doesn't feel very good when he's inside me... Is there any way I can get to the Big O during sex?

Please help!

[foxdana]

Some people never do, keep trying new positions, you may find the magic somewhere, if not, just enjoy the sex for him, the sensations and the closeness!!

[Jimbeau]

It may be psychological instead of physical. You may be thinking about other things when you're having intercourse than what you think when you're getting yourself off. Try having a really naughty fantasy while you're having sex and see if that does the trick. As they say, your brain is your biggest erogenous zone.

[Jimbeau]

One other thought: after he makes you cum some other way and then switches to intercourse, it may be possible for you to have a second orgasm. For some women I've been with, that's the only way they can acheive orgasm during intercourse.