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  • rachelharper3
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 2

    Ladies, Pain during intercourse??

    Maybe you ladies can help me out with my situation. I've been married to my husband for over 2 years now. We've had a wonderful sex life up until after I had our baby. We waited 8 weeks until we had sex post pregnancy and it hurt like . I went to the dr and she said it takes time for it to heal and should be pain free within 6 months and to use lots of lubrication. Our child is now 11 months old and it still hurts like , but only when he goes deep. He doesnt do it hard, its just like a spot wayyy in the back that hurts like . I would go see my dr, but I'm currently out of work and have no insurance coverage. It hurts me emotionally too because I enjoy sex but the fear of pain is making me push my husband away when he wants sex but he understands that it hurts too much. Since we had the baby, we might have tried to have sex 10 times. Anyone have any insight on this, HELP!
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    He could be bumping up against your cervix, which isn't very comfortable... Experiment with different positions, he may not be able to penetrate deep.

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    • vancityguy
      Member
      • Sep 2010
      • 32

      my girlfriend had this same problem, we would have sex multiple times a day and we couldnt keep our hadns off eachother , then one day we started to have sex and she almost jumped off my penis. we thought maybe it was from too much sex and we needed some time off, so we stopped for about a week but it didnt help...she went into the doctors and had an ultrasound done , they found a cyst. just a small bump like form that irratated the h*ll out of her during sex....she was prescrided some pills to help and within a week she was fine again....hopefully this could be of some sort of help.

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