[vancityguy]

OK....so im having a ton of sex with my GF about 3times a day! but we want to try some new stuff...she loves getting eatin out and i LOVE licking her to climax! but we want something kinda kinky...i would love to try anal...but she's not too fond of the idea ...and its understandable i mean i wouldnt want something up my(edit) either! but lots of women enjoy it...so im jsut trying to get her to try it before she makes up her mind...any women have some usefull knowledge as to how to approach this with successful results?!?!?! and any ideas for some kinky new things to try....we are both very open minded when it comes to sex!

[WildChild]

Getting a positive response to anal is really all in the approach. Many women (and men) find touching, licking and stimulating the pernium arousing. Start there. Then just work around her anus, touching and exploring. Try pressure with a circular motion on the anus with a finger or your thumb, without trying to penetrate.
If she is really wetting wet use some of her own fluids to slip just the tip of your finger in.
Make certain you never go from the anus to her vagina, that ca nlead to a nasty infection.

Many people are concerned about cleanilness. If she has regular bowel habits this shouldn't much of an issue provided you start anal play after she has empltied her bowel. If either of you are skittish about this an enema a few hours before should help. You don't want to do one too soon before as there is a natural lining and you should give that some time to restore after rinsing the colon. The use of lube is a personal thing, some people just can't get enough, others of us can do without. Try a reasonable amount, at some point you hit a level of diminshing returns and tons of it would probably just end up messy.

If she agrees to allow you to penetrate her anally make sure she is lubricated, personally if I'm aroused I don't need lube but it is probably a good idea. There are two bands of muscle, once you have the head in past the first, stop and let her muscles relax. Let her tell you when you you can go in further. Then slide in just past the second band of muscles and again wait and let her tell you when you can move. Start slowly until she accustomed to it, then the two of you can determine how vigorous you want to be.

You should have discussed before whether you will use a condom or bareback and if you aren't using a condom, if you ejaculate inside her. Using a condom can allow you to withdraw, remove it and continue with vaginal or oral sex to finish.

You might offer to let her play with your anal area too. Fair is fair...

[Ashlee T.]

Yes, you try it first and show her how much you enjoy it and then maybe she'll be more inclined to try. Something going into her exit is just as unnatural for her and something going into yours. *dodging flying chairs*

[Jimbeau]

I was just about to recommend the strap-on. You want kinky? That's kinky.

[vancityguy]

hahah strap on may be a little to far fetched for the both of us, she thinks there hilarious and has not interest, neither do i.....thanks for the advise WILDCHILD im heading to her place now, wish me luck !

[Jimbeau]

hahah strap on may be a little to far fetched for the both of us, she thinks there hilarious and has not interest, neither do I

And I work so hard coming up with these creative ideas. (sigh)

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