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Being endlessly curious, I've looked at all kinds. Most of it just doesn't do much for me. Looking at it is a more academic activity rather than one of titilation.
Visually it's generally very poor, emotionally it's just not there, and the lack of creativity is astounding. Most porn is fairly brutish stuff and not at all what real people who want a really good sexual relationship or even a good one night encounter should follow.
Really, just hearing one certain man's voice, the slightest brush of his hand, just being in the same space with him - has done more to turn me on than hours of any kind of porn could. Too bad he fell into and could never move back beyond the porn sex mentality. We might of had something most people only dream of - actually we did, until he chose 'porn' type sex over real connection and love making.Comment
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I stopped watching porn awhile ago after I realized I cannot actually find anything I like. I mean the point of porn is so focused on just looking at the airbrushed girl...I do not like girls like that in any way shape or form, and I think the vagina is disgusting-even airbrushed ones so watching a vag get spread full screen was like this is not arousing go away. Then I tried amateur which I must admit I do not mind as long as it does not look like the girl is trying to make it seem like she is a professional porn actress. The normal couple in their room with the camera on a desk or something...totally okay so I will watch those when I am alone if I can find a clip with is actual amateurs. Nowadays even typing 'amateur' on a porn site gets you to dolled up airbrush "princess Melody amateur gang banged on roof top!"-not amateur or "amateur Christine legs spread cumming alone in bathroom" -not amateur when she yet again looks like she spent 5 hours in makeup. Things airbrushed and edited for countless hours just makes it boring to me, too predictable...nothing I can relate to so I just ignore it.There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.Comment
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My favorite "porn" is the movie my lover and I made of ourselves making love...gets me every time, lol.
Regular porn does nothing for me because it's the opposite of how we (my lover and I) make love. Hard and pounding and brutal as opposed to soft and loving and sometimes still. It hurts to watch it.Comment
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Same as lil bird, I watch lesbian because the women are gorgeous and purely for the oral. It's the men in porn that actually put me off...there should be castings for properly gorgeous men!!
And I just search for 'massage' more then the lesbian stuff. I hate physicall contact from anyone but my bf...even hugs sometimes make me uncomfortable when I'm greeting someone! It feels so exclusive that when he does touch me its fantastic...So watching someone get a hot steamy massage just pushes my buttons. I just imagine its him and me
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I'm sort of like WC in that I look at a little bit of everything just for education. LOL. But, I really enjoy the "home videos" of sex, and masturbation. I particularly enjoy watching men wank. I don't know why but it really gets me going. I dislike the classic "porn" style videos: starts off with a BJ, then some mechanical sex and some repetitive high pitched whiny moaning, with periodic pauses for more BJ time, then more sex, then pulling out to cum all over the womans face and in her mouth. I'm seriously so bored by that nonsense I could scream. Plus, I dislike the fact that the women all have these tiny little perfect vaginas. I have fairly large inner labia, which I've been self conscious about my entire life (though no one has ever complained.
) and these girls don't make that insecurity any better. 
But yeah, I guess I enjoy the men wanking home videos cause it's kind of like I'm spying on them. Maybe I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. And I like to see the way men handle themselves.
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