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Could he be dehydrated? Is there a lot of build up before the orgasm? Maybe you could try keeping him in an aroused state for a bit longer, more teasing, edge out his orgasm and that might lead to an explosion. If its been a while since he came, or even if it hasn't.. if you bring him to the edge...then STOP, then make him feel all good again... get him right to the edge... STOP... repeat a few times ... that generally leads to a much powerful squirting scenerio.
Just like women how sometimes you can rush through your arousal and come but its not as powerful as when you build up to it... let it feel as good as possible without going over the top... then bringing it back up again... til you can't take it anymore... the orgasm is DYANAMIC when you tease yourself... maybe that will help?Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going. -
If its hard for him to cum, when he gets close he probably wants to rush to the finish line like its more of accomplishing a goal then just experiencing great pleasures. He needs to stop looking at sex like a sport or a job where he must obtain goals and instead sit back relax and enjoy the tingles, all the little waves that crash over him until that big tsunami hits.
I know when I am close to orgasm its that few seconds before it that feel the best...when it feels as good as it can possibly feel right before the fireworks.. I love riding that feeling out as long as possible and so I try to do the same for my guy... which usually leads to some powerful explosions.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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Has he consulted with a physician? It could be something medical. Have you tried to abstain, and have him abstain from masturbating for several days to see if his flow increases?
Too many men either confuse or use orgasm/ejaculate to mean the same thing. They are very different.
What about just focusing on your needs?Comment
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