So my FWB was over this morning before he had to go to work. For obvious reasons, he is not allowed to cum in any of my orifices without a condom. So today instead we took the condom off halfway through, I sucked him off (I was on my back with him leaning over me), and he came on my belly. This does not bother me, the act of it doesn't gross me out... but when I was cleaning it up I was almost gagging. I held it back because of him, I didn't want him thinking I found him gross because I don't. I never had this issue before... my ex would cum on me all the time and I was fine with it. Why am I gagging from it now all of a sudden? Could it be because I don't have any romantic feelings for this guy and it's just sex? Is there a way to get past that?
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Was it chunky or absolutely massive in volume?...or an overall different texture than your ex's? I know if my bf has more liquid like cum on my belly it is not so bad to clean up, but if it gets to be a lot like soaking 4,5,6 tissues into a solid lump and have a stringy/clumpy texture I am about ready to gag. Just seeing it be in strings like when I am wiping is just gross but I keep all comments and grimaces to myself as I too do not want to make a big scene. Maybe it is just an out of the blue response though, does it happen every time the finishes on you?There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy. -
Well his texture seems to be quite normal, not chunky or stringy, it's more liquid like. My ex was the same. Yeah it did seem just out of the blue, he came on me once before and I didn't have that reaction. I just can't figure out the reason, because I would like to prevent that from happening the next time ya know?Comment
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Yeah no kidding, out of the blue moments are not so fun when you do not know why it even happened. I don't know though, maybe you can just give it time. Things can happen without reason but if you put too much focus on it then you can start to develop a "will I gag again" question in the back of your mind each time he finishes on you. You already acknowledge that him going on you in the first place is not an issue so I would say stick to the reason being a totally random occurrence (even though that in itself is frustrating).There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.Comment
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LOL ok thank you.
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