[Cheese5318]

Oftentimes after I have either performed oral sex on my wife or stimulated her with my hand to orgasm, she'll sometimes give me a few different options in how she'd like to be penetrated. Sometimes she'll want either doggy style, woman on top, of a form of the missionary position, but wants me to choose how I enter her. Othertimes she's very specific in how she wants me to enter her and thrust. For example, she'll want her legs over my shoulders with various thrusting speeds, but othertimes she'll want me to surprise her with a position and speed. I usually don't mind, although some positions stimulate me more than others.

Do any girls like to be penetrated in very specific positions, even after you've already climaxed at least once? Or do you let your husband thrust into you in any position he chooses? My wife usually wants specific penetration positions when she can feel another orgasm on its way.

[Travis_C]

my wife will only let me enter guy on top. no other position. but after im in and she is ready anything goes.

[caterpillar79]

She's a confident and assertive woman - I admire her for that. Your communication seems good, but it looks to me like you have not shared to her your wishes - what feels good to you. You might want to share as well...

Women can have multiple orgasms and even with varying degrees. Read about tantric sex if your interested about this in particular.

To answer your query, I am not a "director" in bed, as I enjoy the spontaniety of the moment. I do communicate what feels good to me - when, how and where, but I always let him lead the way. My loving husband never fails to consider what feels good for me, so in that, I trust that he'll take me to pleasure cove.

[Bellalla]

My husband and I communicate about position, thrust force, speed, etc throughout sex.

We have some favourite positions, which we both tend to prefer at different points during sex, but other than that, it varies session to session and moment to moment.

The ability to communicate what you want and how you want it in a comfortable manner is key.

[Colorado]

I am not a "director" in bed, as I enjoy the spontaniety of the moment.

Agree 100% - it should (in my eyes) not be a scripted even, in any way, shape, or form. When it becomes routine, you will begin to lose something very special.