[Guest]

what do ya'll think is the optimum amount of time for foreplay...and what is the average time that you guys get?

and what is the bear minimum?

[WildChild]

Depends on the woman and the circumstances.

[shweedart]

Can't really put a time on it...until you cant keep your hands off of eachother!

[WildChild]

how long do women want foreplay?

All their lives.
Don't ever stop.
But remember foreplay includes; loving words and looks, a gentle caress as you walk by, a playful slap on the butt, an "I love you" on your way out the door, lending a hand or two around the house, kisses where ever and whenever, compliments, gentle honesty, showing her that for you she is IT, holding hands, remembering special dates, listening and actually hearing her, caring, being present, humor, tollerance....

Foreplay should be how you both live your life with each other in it.

[pincrlgrl]

My boyfriend offers me foreplay for as long as i can stand it. He loves giving me oral sex. he will stay there for hours if I could take it. But I'm so aroused that I beg him to let me come. I have huge , multiple orgasms. Never experienced this before him. I know he loves what he's doing so I feel no pressure, and can thoroughly enjoy myself.
Women want endless foreplay if you will give it to her. You will greatly benefit from driving your woman wild.

[pincrlgrl]

If your putting a time limit on it. She will sense this and feel pressure. My boyfriend loves to keep me at the brink of orgasm for a loooong time. He doesn't look at it as how long it takes, he likes to think of it in terms of how long he can keep me there. When he finally lets me come it's over the moon. Then he can do what ever he wants to me. I'm primed and ready. He truly makes love like a God. We stay in bed for days sometimes. I want him all the time because he is a patient generous lover.

[caterpillar79]

Now that I'm married...foreplay is our way of life.

[PandaPaws]

how long do women want foreplay?

All their lives.
Don't ever stop.
But remember foreplay includes; loving words and looks, a gentle caress as you walk by, a playful slap on the butt, an "I love you" on your way out the door, lending a hand or two around the house, kisses where ever and whenever, compliments, gentle honesty, showing her that for you she is IT, holding hands, remembering special dates, listening and actually hearing her, caring, being present, humor, tollerance....

Foreplay should be how you both live your life with each other in it.

^^agreed! It is all the time! If you do all that stuff, your woman will feel much more comfortable and relaxed in the bedroom! As for foreplay in the bedroom though, sometimes a lot, sometimes not - depends on our moods, and how much time we have. Often times we take turns I guess, and then bring it together at the end. I'd say it takes an hour when we get in some good foreplay beforehand.

[Bellalla]

My boyfriend offers me foreplay for as long as i can stand it. He loves giving me oral sex. he will stay there for hours if I could take it. But I'm so aroused that I beg him to let me come. I have huge , multiple orgasms. Never experienced this before him. I know he loves what he's doing so I feel no pressure, and can thoroughly enjoy myself.
Women want endless foreplay if you will give it to her. You will greatly benefit from driving your woman wild.

This exactly.

If you want a woman to open up to you and feel excited for sex, the best strategy is to give her endless foreplay until she calls it quits. Oral sex is in an incredibly effective way to win over a woman's sex drive.

[sarahlee20]

aww that's great to hear pincrlgrl. :-) It's good to hear that. I hope my next guy i am with as in my next boyfriend will be a sweet patient guy as well as lover to me.