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  • Starla
    Junior Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 1

    I cannt do it. Back when my hubby and I were dating I always did, and for some resson it seemed easyer back then. Now we have been together for 3 years and have a kid, I just dont see the resson for me to do it anymore. I dont even like giving a bj anymore. I dont know why that is but sex is just not the same as when everything was fresh and new. That could be part of the problem. Try spiceing things up really get into the mood of you being a bad girl. you know what I mean.

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    • rcoreyus
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2007
      • 4369

      Starla - have both of you lost interest or just you? Good sex is important to a happy relationship.

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      • lizzardb63
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2010
        • 1493

        ItsASecret, I am the same way. He has a large penis, so for me to be able to put it at the back of my throat would gag me in the first place, lol. I guess this will have to be one of those things I do occassionally as a treat.

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        • Mr. Inquisitive
          Senior Member
          • May 2010
          • 102

          Originally posted by Starla
          I cannt do it. Back when my hubby and I were dating I always did, and for some resson it seemed easyer back then. Now we have been together for 3 years and have a kid, I just dont see the resson for me to do it anymore. I dont even like giving a bj anymore. I dont know why that is but sex is just not the same as when everything was fresh and new. That could be part of the problem. Try spiceing things up really get into the mood of you being a bad girl. you know what I mean.
          That's too bad. The longer me and my SO have been together the better and more adventurous the bed time activities have become.

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