[WildChild]

Every man tastes different and has a somewhat different texture. Look up diet and the ejaculate. There are a number of dedicated souls who have sacrificed their time and energy doing field research on this and have provided the results free of charge on line.

My own observations are that diet and smoking/tobacco use do have a big effect on taste, while frequency of ejaculation and hydration affect texture and consistancy. A man who ejaculates more often and is well hydrated will have a smoother more liquid ejaculate and somewhat less volume.

Don't hold it in your mouth, just let it slip down your throat. I rarely notice swallowing, it just goes. Not a big deal.

[lizzardb63]

I think that's my problem. 1. I am psyching myself out 2. i hold it in my mouth until he is finish and swallow with one big gulp. Its not that he is pressuring me into doing this because if I said no, he'd respect that, but I love him and will do it for him.

[Guest]

Perhaps you could offer to share his ejaculate with him next time in order for him to get a clear understanding of what he is asking you to do.

Just a thought.

[lizzardb63]

That would probably never happen, lol. I wouldnt want to taste myself either...

[jordanh]

do you guys kiss after he goes down on you? i know that's kind of personal lol but technically if he does you're kind of tasting yourself. and if you don't notice a taste, then he has it easier. plus, it doesn't just fill your mouth to the point where its like taking too big a gulp of water or something. men don't realize how difficult it is to do something like that. i've never been a fan of giving BJ's, and have only done it a few times and only because i know it makes my SO happy. i have allowed him to finish in my mouth only once - and it was the second time within a short period that he ejaculated so i assume there's less volume than if it were the first time. and it was still difficult. >.>

i agree, make him taste it! lol.

[Bubba J]

Interesting question. No, my wife will not let me kiss her after I've gone down on her. I try, and she wiggles and complains, and then we laugh.

Interestingly, I've never ejaculated in my wife's mouth. She simply doesn't want that. If she finds something to be distasteful, it holds no excitement for me whatsoever. I have done things that I would never have done (like anal, for example) except for the fact that she said it was exciting to her. Even if I don't care for it, the fact that she likes it makes it arousing to me too. So if she doesn't want to swallow, or even have me come in her mouth, that's fine. Now, if she told me I couldn't go down on her any more that might cause some anxiety, but that's another thread...

[swimgirl18]

I personally love to swallow after giving a blow job to my boyfriend. I think it's the icing on the cake, so to speak. Not only do I enjoy it, but I think that men enjoy it because it shows that you fully embrace everything about him, yes even their semen. I think that it can open the door to a greater and higher sexual experience between couples. That being said, one way to make swallowing a little easier and more pleasant is to encourage you're man to eat less meat and more fruits and veggies. This makes for a sweeter, less bitter tasting cum. Also, having some sort of drink close to you also helps ease the texture, taste, and feeling down you're throat.

Hope this helps!

[lizzardb63]

It does help. I think that is why he would like me to do it so much. I used to be on birth control so I allowed him to come inside me, but the birth control made me too moody and I had to go off. Because he was able to come inside me, it made us a lot closer and made the experience more intimate. Since he cannot come inside me anymore, by me taking it in my mouth, we are still having that intimacy of fulling embrasing each other. Know what I mean?

[stressed]

You don't hold it in your mouth (huge mistake), you do what WC said and just let it go down your throat without tasting it at all. Going slowly is also a mistake in this case as by that time you'll start thinking about it and the same thing will happen again. The trick is to do it without tasting it and that only happens if he ejaculates down your throat. Can't think of any other way.

[ItsASecret]

The trick is to do it without tasting it and that only happens if he ejaculates down your throat. Can't think of any other way.

Works perfectly in theory, avoids the taste buds but I have done that as well but the gag is always there. The unexpected shooting (even if he says he is cumming there is always an element of surprise) at the back of the throat causes an immediate gag response. Which with a full mouth of penis and unfortunate uncontrolled gag + teeth could = worry. Key word is worry lol. When I have personally tried this method he had to finish very recently so that his new ejaculate was barely there in volume so it certainly does help. When you are dealing with mouthful volumes without that very recent ejaculate though it becomes less easy to just get used to that much falling down the back of the throat while not thinking about gagging.