[Texasred]

it'a hard to read things like this; it's almost enough to make me ashamed to be a man.
But I don't think a real man would do this to a woman.
Rape isn't about sex, really, is it? It's about abusing someone.
Makes me want to find the guy that did this and show him what "abuse" really means.

IB, you need to talk to your therapist about this, and soon. I do so hope he can help you through this, and to understand that it really is nothing for YOU to feel ashamed of.
- TR

[Colorado]

Makes me want to find the guy that did this and show him what "abuse" really means.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way! Guys like this need not use up our oxygen (if you catch my drift).

IB, please get some councelling/therapy. You should not feel dirty, nor feel in any way that this is your fault.
You should never be denied pleasure, and you will understandably probably need some help getting through this.

[Texasred]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way! Guys like this need not use up our oxygen (if you catch my drift).

Roger that; my sentiments exactly.