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  • Roxy1991
    Junior Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 3

    Help?!?!

    Ever since I can remember I have not enjoyed sex. I'm now getting into a very serious relationship, we have been together ages and when we do have sex it's great! But I seem to climax very very quickly and I feel so sorry for my boyfriend as after that I'm so uncomfortable and have to stop the sex. I've tried everything, foreplay, stopping now and again during, changing the way we do it and trying to make it more exciting! I really need help as I feel it may start to frustrate him
  • waya
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 206

    Why are you so uncomfortable after orgasm?

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    • Roxy1991
      Junior Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 3

      I don't know really it kind of hurts

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      • waya
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2010
        • 206

        Have your tried just stopping for a bit after orgasm? Have him pull out and you keep playing with him. Then, when you're less sensitive he can enter you again.

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        • waya
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2010
          • 206

          What happens if he pulls out and you play with him until you're less sensitive? Can you go again then?

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          • waya
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2010
            • 206

            Sorry for double post

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            • Roxy1991
              Junior Member
              • Nov 2010
              • 3

              We have never actually tried that but I will because it's good advice thank you !

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