[tmart2003]

My husband and I have been married for 8 years. For the last year, I feel like I have been fighting an uphill battle. My husband wants sex constantly. I feel like nothing I do is good enough. Now he has started telling me that he loves me more than I love him because he is willing to do anything for me but I am not. The biggest problem is that all he wants for me to do is give him a blow job. I do not enjoy getting or giving oral sex. Is there something wrong with me or am I just a bad wife???

[LanaBear]

You are most definitely not a bad wife.

Do that two of you communicate openly about what you like and don't like. I mean, if he is ever only wanting a bj, what is he offering you. Is there romance and intimacy? Do you orgasm when you are intimate? Do you enjoy it once things are under way?

On a medical side of things, have you had a physical, hormone levels checked, talked to your Dr about your lack of a sex drive?

[waya]

Define all the time, that'll give us a better idea of the situation. And I find him only wanting BJ's odd but maybe it's one of those things, since he doesn't get it as much he wants it even more.

[rcoreyus]

Is he willing to do things that you enjoy in bed?