[Stina]

I'm curious.. have you ever had one? What was it like? How did you set it up? If you haven't, would you?

I'm asking because it's something my boyfriend and I have very casually discussed. We're both turned on by the idea of introducing another guy into our bedroom routine, for my pleasure and his. We're currently not in a place where we'd actually entertain such a thought, but we're both pretty open minded, so I figure it may be something that comes up in the future.

Sooo, I'd really like to hear from some of you that have had personal experience with it.

[Guest]

My ex boy friend was always insisting that we should try this and telling me how much i'd enjoy it, so when i gave in and told him i'd do it he came out with a long list of things that i was to do for him and the guy he brought home, it just turned out that i was to be the entertainment for the two of them, it wasn't about me at all, so i called it off..

[waya]

I haven't but I've talked to 4 friends that have. 2 liked the experience quite a bit (1 of them had a 3-person relationship for a while,) 2 (including a guy) said it wasn't all it's cracked up to be. They all seemed to agree that an emotional connection was important.

[Cheese5318]

I haven't done it and never will, because there's no room for a third person in my relationship.

[LilahX]

You're certainly going about this the right way. You're talking about it rather than just rushing into it. We have had many, many threesomes (and foursomes and moresomes) and under the right circumstances it can be a great asset to your r/ship.

Your man obviously doesn't have any jealousy issues and you both know there is a vast difference between love and lust and that admitting you'd like to 'get physcial' with someone else doesn't mean you have any less love or respect for your partner Bravo.

When yr at the place where you can take this step, sign up on a personals site and begin your search. Do be prepared to be inundated with contact requests as couples seeking guys are very sought after as most couples seek couples or women. YOu'll have plenty to choose from and hopefully will find a great, fun guy to explore the joys of group sex.

[Stina]

You're certainly going about this the right way. You're talking about it rather than just rushing into it. We have had many, many threesomes (and foursomes and moresomes) and under the right circumstances it can be a great asset to your r/ship.

Your man obviously doesn't have any jealousy issues and you both know there is a vast difference between love and lust and that admitting you'd like to 'get physcial' with someone else doesn't mean you have any less love or respect for your partner Bravo.

When yr at the place where you can take this step, sign up on a personals site and begin your search. Do be prepared to be inundated with contact requests as couples seeking guys are very sought after as most couples seek couples or women. YOu'll have plenty to choose from and hopefully will find a great, fun guy to explore the joys of group sex.

Thanks, LilahX. Were your other partners friends of yours or did you prefer to find someone randomly via personal ads? I've always wondered how we'd approach that aspect. Personally, I think it would have to be someone I don't know well, or at all even. The extra person to me would be there for physical pleasure only, no emotional attachment whatsoever, just cut and dry.

[clumsygirl]

Threesomes is a dream for many many men. but i think it is a disaster for many many women.

[tinycit]

You'd be amazed how many people who don't think they're the jealous type soon change their minds.

[Bubba J]

Did it, regretted it, many years ago.

[Larry]

I'm curious.. have you ever had one? What was it like? How did you set it up? If you haven't, would you?

I'm asking because it's something my boyfriend and I have very casually discussed. We're both turned on by the idea of introducing another guy into our bedroom routine, for my pleasure and his. We're currently not in a place where we'd actually entertain such a thought, but we're both pretty open minded, so I figure it may be something that comes up in the future.

Sooo, I'd really like to hear from some of you that have had personal experience with it.

First we agreed on who we would ask, and we decided to ask him the next time he was over for dinner. After dinner while we were all sitting together having coffee my wife point blank asked him if he would join us in bed. We assured him that that if he said no, everything would remain the same. He thought about for a week before he said yes.

When the big day came we were all very nervous. We started by me undressed my wife while our friend watched and undressed himself. When my wife was naked she knelt before him and removed his underwear and gave oral, he came very quickly. Next she gave me a big hug, snowball kiss and took off all of my cloths. When we got in bed she started out on her back, I was on her right side and he was on her left. Both of us started sucking her **** and rubbing her inner thigh, shaven pubic area and her vagina. It was a while before we moved onto them having intercourse, when they were done I ate her out, we did that over and over again for hours. That was about 10 years ago. For the first 5 years the our friend and I never touched each other durning our threesomes.

Good Luck,
Larry