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  • equilon
    Junior Member
    • Dec 2010
    • 5

    blowin trouble

    Is it normal for my tongue to be sore for a few days after oral sex? We don't do it often cause he says it''s about me. But everytime I do, My tongue really hurts and sometimes my throat.
  • kristalyn_04
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 2164

    Maybe you're being too rough? Remember your tongue has muscles and oral sex can give it quite a workout. If you're not used to it, your tongue can get sore. If your throat hurts, you may be going too deep. You don't have to deep throat him to make him feel good. Do a thread search, there are tons here that can give you some good pointers for techniques that might help reduce the soreness, and take a break for a few days.

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      Are you using your tongue to keep your teeth from scraping his penis?
      Try curling your lip over your teeth instead.

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