[cepelina]

hello, i need help. i think i;m broken down there. i have never felt great during sex, and only recently have i discovered how to make myself orgasm. but the problem is that even though i have orgasms they don't feel good, or bad, they just feel like nothing. how i know that i have had an orgasm is because of the female ejaculate (and i've done the research and the women that have experienced female ejaculation said that, that was the orgasm that made them shake and their minds explode). but the orgasm feels exactly like urinating, not good not bad just nothing. i'm worried because it takes me 40 minutes minimum to reach an orgasm by myself with pornography and oils, and with another person its just impossible! its very intimidating for the other person. and well i dont have pleasure.
oh and i tried to penetrate the G-spot it does not feel good, and labia is not sensitive. not even oral sex helps.
would a gynacologist help me with questions like these?
any suggestions would be extremely helpful, i'm desperate. thank you

[FlowerFairy]

You can ejaculate without orgasm

[kristalyn_04]

It sounds like you've only had vaginal (g-spot) orgasms. Have you ever had an orgasm from stimulating your clitoris? Do you get pleasure from that?

[cepelina]

no i only get excited from clitorial stimulation and vaginal penetration only irritates me

[jns]

How old are you? Do you have a bf? Have you ever been in love? How do you stimulate your clitoris?

[skirt99]

I'm thinking that maybe what you thought was an orgasm really was not. YOU KNOW WHEN YOU HAVE ONE!!!!

[waya]

I'm thinking that maybe what you thought was an orgasm really was not. YOU KNOW WHEN YOU HAVE ONE!!!!

There are different levels of orgasm and they're not all mind-blowing.

[kristalyn_04]

Maybe... after you have that orgasm, keep going and see if you have another one. I know for me, sometimes that second orgasm is the stronger one.

[waya]

Maybe... after you have that orgasm, keep going and see if you have another one. I know for me, sometimes that second orgasm is the stronger one.

Good idea. I didn't think about it because I'm usually too sensitive but the second orgasm is often better.

[cepelina]

tried that same thing happens :S