[Swt 20]

Hello every 1 mine earlier problem is a bi solved nw i want 2 knw how can i satisfy him coz i think he does so harshly coz he may nt be satisfied wid how cn i satisfy him. He had in his past sex wid his girlfrnd standing one , he says me 2 do d same thing and i m a bit shy im unable 2 do , he sumtimes tels me only 2 do sex bt i m unable and he gets upset he does dn bt later on he complains plz ladies suggest me sumthing great ...... So that i cn satisfy all wat he wnts.:-)plz....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

So he wants you to stand somewhere, and he bends you over but your shy? Is that what you are asking?

Wear a dress, no nickers you won't feel so shy, that's a fantastic position and it makes a man feel he's in control..

But what do you mean, he sometimes tells you only to do sex but your unable to, do you mean, going down on him? If so, it's very easy to do, can you practise maybe with lights off? To start with....

Thanks for the friendship request....

I appreciate not everyone can understand your writing, so we'll do our best to convert it or ask questions to get your questions out there to the member's correctly...

CW

[Ashlee T.]

What specific things does your boyfriend want you to do that you are uncomfortable with? Please try to list them out like:
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This way we can try to better understand what you are asking.

Also, keep in mind that no one should try to force you to do things you're not comfortable with and someone that loves and respects you isn't going to get angry and complain when you are shy. If he loves you he will take his time with you so that you can grow comfortable with him and trust him enough to be more open to trying these things he wants.

[Swt 20]

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So he wants you to stand somewhere, and he bends you over but your shy? Is that what you are asking?

Wear a dress, no nickers you won't feel so shy, that's a fantastic position and it makes a man feel he's in control..

But what do you mean, he sometimes tells you only to do sex but your unable to, do you mean, going down on him? If so, it's very easy to do, can you practise maybe with lights off? To start with....

Thanks for the friendship request....

I appreciate not everyone can understand your writing, so we'll do our best to convert it or ask questions to get your questions out there to the member's correctly...

CW

i know because i use sms language any ways now i wont use it . And he wants me do sex , wants me to start how can i start suggest me that . Second thing he likes the standing position of sex and i dont like that position at all . He sometimes compare me with his ex that hurts me a lot i have told him many times but still some or the other way he compares me plz frnds suggest me what to do how can i statisfy him and sorry for the sms language i used before....

[Guest]

You mean standing like you're against a wall or something ??

[jns]

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i know because i use sms language any ways now i wont use it . And he wants me do sex , wants me to start how can i start suggest me that . Second thing he likes the standing position of sex and i dont like that position at all . He sometimes compare me with his ex that hurts me a lot i have told him many times but still some or the other way he compares me plz frnds suggest me what to do how can i statisfy him and sorry for the sms language i used before....

He wants you to initiate sex? That is usually dependent on personality and things like culture and socialization. Are you uncomfortable initiating, or are you not getting a lot of pleasure out of it, so it isn't something you would start, or is there another reason?

What is it about standing up sex that is uncomfortable? Is he too physical, does your back, legs or joints hurt? is there no accommodation for differing heights?

Does he spend time on your pleasure or is it all about his pleasure?

[Swt 20]

He wants you to initiate sex? That is usually dependent on personality and things like culture and socialization. Are you uncomfortable initiating, or are you not getting a lot of pleasure out of it, so it isn't something you would start, or is there another reason?

What is it about standing up sex that is uncomfortable? Is he too physical, does your back, legs or joints hurt? is there no accommodation for differing heights?

Does he spend time on your pleasure or is it all about his pleasure?

yep my back and legs do pain after sex , he gives me pleasure but the only thing is that i cannot do sex i feel very shy dear

[Swt 20]

You mean standing like you're against a wall or something ??

yes against the wall ......

[Guest]

Well do you lift a leg or anything ??

[Swt 20]

Well do you lift a leg or anything ??

wall is just a support for us we have hieght gap so he lifts me , we both dont stand