[samantha2011]

I am 70 years old and have only had sex 4 times in 10 years and I tried having sex and either I was not ewxcited enough or he was to big. When he did get it in it hurt real bad and he ended up with a
bruise on the end or his penis. How can I fix my problem?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Samantha,

Welcome to the Forum...

I assume, at 40, 50, 60 even 30, you were able to have sex, without difficulties yes?

I have to leave it to the boys here,regarding a bruise on the end of a penis? red, maybe, cuts maybe, a bruise I've never heard off, but sounds like he doesn't know what he's doing...

In any event, go back to your youth, what did you do then, no different....if your not excited, use lube...if he is too big, as him to go gently not force himself....

CW

[realtruck]

I am a little younger, but not much. My wife has always been very tight, and I think mine is sort of big-around if you know what I mean. We use lubricants always now when I enter her, there is more need for it as we age. I love for her to put it on me. It helps to get her "tuned on" first with some teasing and foreplay. I will sometimes bring her to orgasm with my tongue, then again when I am inside. She gets quite excited if I stroke myself and let her watch. If it feels like it is going to be uncomfortable, we will bring each other to orgasm manually, or watch each other masturbate to completion. If she is touching herself, she will immediately orgasm when I start to cum. It is quite enjoyable.