[Snuz]

Yes I CAN get turned on watching porn.. But somehow it's not very intense?.. So what would cause it to dampen so much.

[oxyear]

I think might be about the medicines that you took........ If you feel want sex let your bf make you cum by using his mouth longer he did you feel horny!!

Better stop medicine and try to exercise and eat some food the good for sex

[WildChild]

Yes I CAN get turned on watching porn.. But somehow it's not very intense?.. So what would cause it to dampen so much.

I'm pretty sexually responsive but porn doesn't do much for me either. Its just too unbalanced, too fake, too contrived.

[Tommister]

Here's are some thoughts for you to explore internally: Why did you stop taking the pill? Could you be subconsciously worried about become pregnant? That occult seed in your mind may be causing an inadvertent loss of desire or repulsion to sex even. And even if you have decided to have a child, maybe there are questions and fears in the back of your mind surrounding becoming a mother that are acting in the same manner? Even if you are using another method of control, maybe you are not as confident that it will work and these subconscious fears are manifesting in this way.

What I am Freud now? Just a thought that hit me.

[stressed]

Is sex with your boyfriend satisfying?

[Snuz]

I'm not really talking about sex... I mean like when I'm on my own and I never get horny or sexual urges at all, and I mean to remember that I used to.. >.< I suspect going on birthcontrol may have affected my sex drive or hormones negatively.. Is there any way to balance hormones?

[Tommister]

Thyroid is the master hormon controlling hundreds of processes. Start there. Google a thyriod association website that has a quiz of 20 questions or so to determine if there is something worth asking your doctor about. I know someone who was hypo and they lost their drive but there were many othher symptoms too. Also mke sure you are getting enough iron. The doctor can also check that at the same time. What am iw now, an endocronologist?

[oxy-moron]

Try a couple of herbs- Muira puama and ginkgo.
-Known as “potency wood,” it is an Amazon shrub. French researchers surveyed the sexuality of 202 healthy women complaining of low libido, then gave them a combination of muira puama and ginkgo. Two-thirds reported improved sexual function: greater libido, more frequent intercourse, increased likelihood of orgasm, more intense orgasms, and greater sexual satisfaction. “The research is scant,” Blumenthal says, “but often, when a plant gets a name like ‘potency wood,’ there’s something to that claim.”

[mrsgaines84]

SAME PROBLEM

Hey.. Lately I've been wondering what happened to my sex drive.. I'm 22 and I feel like I never get horny.. I can't remember the last time I got that tingly feeling down there or that slight stinging sensation.. I used to get it from things like reading erotic novels.. But it just doesn't seem to work anymore! I was on the pill for about 3 years, and off it for 6 months now. I don't know if that could be related, as I said, I don't really remember when it started stopping..
Anyone know if there could be other causes?

omg im currently going through the same problem. im 22 also and my boyfriend of two years is getting fed up. i dont understand why my sex drive left me. Porn is ok, but i like the natural touch idea. They say its imbalanced hormones, im currently taking the depo shot. Ive been on the depo for 6months now. I just dont get it because im so young. Its not my lover because hes great. desperate for answers. I dont want to loose the love of my life behind my sex drive.

[Fallen1]

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