any help would be lovley
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Oral Help
My fella really likes me giving oral sex to him, but the problem is I think I cant do it right. He really loves me deep throating well trying but i end up gagging my mates said you get used to it but how can I is there any sugestions. also is there any way possible i can get my fella give me oral as sometimes he will do it but like not long enough. when i am like dead long down there on him.
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Deep throating really isn't necessary to please him. Try a combination of hand and mouth... focus your mouth just on the head and use your hand to stroke him. If you want him to give you oral more or do it longer, just talk to him about it. Maybe he's not doing it long enough because his tongue is getting tired or his neck is getting sore. He can stimulate you manually until his tongue has a rest then go again, and you can put a pillow under your hips to make it easier on his neck. -
As Kristalyn has said, deep throat isn't all its cracked up to be. It's more a visual turn on for the guy seeing it all disappear down your throat but I reckon every guy who wants it should be made to try and do it himself to see how hard it is lol
the most sensitive part of his penis is just under the head on the underside so taking it all ythe way down your throat isn't going to stimulate that any more than paying that area really good attention with the tip of your tongue and your fingers. Believe me, if you find the 'right spot' where he responds the most, you can get him off with just the pressure of one finger.
Using fingers and mouth toghter so you cover the whole area (use loads of lube for good glide). Make a tight ring with yr fingers and when sliding it up and down, make it tighter as you go over the head (to mimic him entering you) and follow the movement with your mouth.
If you find deepthroat unpleasant or impossible, tell him. You shouldn't have to do anything yr not 100% ok with. As I said, if he wants it tell him to try it too and see how he likes it.Comment
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