[Xiomara]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months and it will be 4 months in Feb 11. But we started having sexx. Mi first time was in his car. I'm not scared to loose him but the second time we had sex and the first, he didnt have a condom on. He pulled out and got it all over the place. But we werent sure if none was still in me. The next day he came to my house and told me he had something to tell me. He had brought the "Plan B Pill". It scared me but he told me that it was he cared and didnt want to loose me. He told me it was my choice so i took it. I felt weird and odd being there with him. the pill made me dizzy and i had nausea but i toughed it out. I didnt want him to leave. So we stayed then we started kissing and we had sex AGAIN. He used a condom and we were sure it didnt break or slip. We were safe that time. But things calmed down and soon started again. We started again and we had sex, i didnt feel so sick and i toughed it out.. We had sex and this time he didnt use a condom or pull out.. I was scared and started shaking. Soo is it possible for me to become pregnant even tho i took the pill? I'm scared and i knw he will take care of me but still... I feel weird. Mi mom or anyone knows and I'm thinking about getting birth control buttt I'm scareddd. what should i do...???

[Claret]

I think you need a whole bunch of education. Get to a Health Care facility - explain the facts as you have expressed them here - and listen to what they have to say.

[Tommister]

I totally agree with Claret. What state/town do you live in, I'm sure we can help you locate where to go.

Bottom line, you are most definitely at risk of becoming pregnant with these first intercourse encounters. Pull out method does not work! There are some sperm in the fluids that are released prior to full ejaculation. The day after pill you took may or may not prevent pregnancy. We have a neighbor who took it and she still got pregnant and had the child 10 months later. There is also a risk of you receiving sexual transmitted diseases from your partner (I assume you were a virgin but don't know about him).

Be firm with your partner that you want to learn about the proper techniques and the risks before you do it again, but that he should help you and educate himself too to hasten the process so that you can both be comfortable with having fun and loving each other.

[stressed]

It's always possible to get pregnant every time you have unprotected sex. Your boyfriend behaves irresponsibly and unless you start being in charge of your own protection you should stop having sex with him. Don't have sex without a condom, you've only been dating 3 months. If he does not want to use one, or doesn't know how to use one, he shouldn't be having sex with you, it's dangerous. Not only about pregnancy but also about diseases.