[kayleigh4]

I'm 14 years of age.. and I've recently had sex. The guy I was with was 16 & He brokeup with me a few weeks ago. I kind of feel like a fool, because I had sex with him.. then he went and brokeup with me. I want to get checked. Not because I think he had something.. Just to be safe. ...Incase. I wanna talk to my mom about it but i'm scared she'll cry. I am her youngest, Her middle is 17 and is no where near ready and probably wont until shes married and I'm sure my mom knows of that.. and the oldest is 22 or 23 and is now My mom and I are really close.. and I just really don't like to see her cry. I've always been her ' baby girl ' and it makes me tear up every time I think about telling her because I know she will cry. and I don't like seeing her hurt..
any advice? , or any way I could get it done without her finding out?

thanks<3

[Master Bruh]

Whoooa their little lady bruh.
Chances are she probably will cry just to be straight forward with you. BUT she will understand seeing as she herself has gone through it and the the thought of her daughters having sex Im sure hasnt been completely void from her mind.
I would suggest talking to your oldest lady bruh(sis) first before your mom since shes most likely seen more and can relate more to you without being in a huge shock.
Talk to her about how your feeling and how she could ease into talking to your mom. Plus she can take you to get checked out so in case your aware of whats going on with your body if anything at all.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Agree with the above...

I really despise boys like this, taking advantage I am assuming you are saying you were a Virgin first, then dumping, and worse you are 14, underage and he knew that...How many other young ladies has / is he going to do that to?

Sweetheart, you owe it to yourself ...You made a wrong judgement call, yet, we are meant to be able to trust and believe, yet he took that away from you...Your Mother will totally understand that yes it takes two but your 14 and he knew better than to even go there...

Talk to your older sister first I think.... it will be easier for you, and then ask her to be with you when you tell your Mum.

We were all young at some stage, all taken advantage of. And, all thought that he was a prince and we did the right thing only to be used and thrown away...

At this point you also need support to get through that feeling.

CW

[kristalyn_04]

Ah sweetie... I at least hope that you were safe about it. Yes you should definitely get checked out.

If you can talk to big sis first, I think that's a good idea... do you have a good relationship with her? Your mom... yes she may be upset at first, but after the initial shock wears off she will support you, help you, and hopefully help educate you. That's part of a mother's job, she will understand and only wants the best for you and to be safe. Sit her down and tell her, hopefully big sis can be there as well for emotional support. Let us know how it goes.