[naughtyncgirl]

I'm 27 and have been married for about 2 years. I would love to talk to another woman who is married or involved with a smaller guy. My husband is 28 yrs old and about 4" fully erect, and it can be quite frustrating for me to enjoy sex and feel satisfied afterward. Are there other married women in this dilemma?

[Agony_Aunt]

There has been numerous discussions here before about penis size.

There are women who prefer larger penis's while some women have no preference to size. And some will say that it's no about the size, it's about how it's used.

Although there is many other way to feel satisfied.

I myself have been with a partner who was small, but I found that once there is the attraction and connection and chemistry there, the size does not affect it.

[kristalyn_04]

I don't think it's his size that is leaving you unsatisfied. As we have iterated over and over again on this forum, size does not matter. He probably hasn't figured out the techniques that work best for you yet, and you need to help guide him in what feels good (positioning, rhythm, speed, angle of penetration are all factors). If that really isn't doing it for you, you can try toys and he can try pleasuring you with his hands and tongue.

[OregonGirl]

Some view it as a dilemma and some view it as a blessing. It all depends on the personal tastes and what it takes to please each individual person.

If you are not getting the satisfaction you need, then it is a good idea to (nicely) have a talk with your husband. After 2 years you guys should be at the point where you can have mature discussions without getting too offended.

Perhaps you can try new positions, or even items like extenders or French ticklers.

There are other factors that can affect the length of the penis and how deep penetration is. For instance, if he is overweight then a good portion of his penis could be hidden under that poofy pelvic fat that we all know and despise. On the other hand, if the woman is overweight it can make it troublesome to get in deep enough, even during doggy.

You're referring to it as a dilemma so the first step to take is to find out what you can do to make it better, and then apply.

[Guest]

As far as my understanding goes the penises no matter how big they are ineffective if there is chemistry of love and the lovers not arty.

Sis, handle him amorously and have him finger your clitoris or even his small penis will emerge callused and will hit upon you robustly. My fiancé has an average size. I am porn reader and watcher to be honest and have several online friends to discuss this issue and some even do not hesitate to expose their penises and even their intercourses. I am brutally honest to you that a man with a small penis can penetrate into your deep father than the one with a big . it is the emotional quotient too that matters at the end of the day, the way he cay lay you there and make love to you.

It is the start that matters and it is not just the anatomy but the passion that works better. Talk dirtily, obscenely and that triggers the imagination and fires the passions and sets off the action and you will be in cloud nine in a while

[GoddessOfLove]

Size matters. It doesn't matter how much motion he got if you can't feel anything.

Did you test drive the car before you bought it, so to speak? Or did you find this out after the wedding?

My only advice is get a big giant vibrator.

[Tool]

I don't have a big penis, but my Wife never has a problem reaching orgasm. You need to talk and find out what works and what doesn't.

After I drive her crazy with some good foreplay, she can orgasm many times.

[Scarletkitty]

Where are these women that speak of size not mattering??? I've never met one. If a woman says size doesn't matter, it's because you have a small penis and she's just being nice!

[jns]

Obviously, there are some women who like guys to be a certain size or larger and there are others who have had good relationships with guys who are smaller or have determines size is not as important as how the guy presents himself and uses what he has. As a guy, this is good news, there are girls who like whatever size you have, just not all girls. However as a guy and whatever size you have, you can increase your chances of girls liking your way of having sex by becoming more skilled and more open to what you like. Also know some women will find some guys too large to have enjoyable sex with. I've personally never met a woman who requires a certain size or larger. I would probably be so turned off by that attitude, there would not be even friendship. But each to her or his own.

[kristalyn_04]

Ok... those of you that are saying size matters, read this thread:

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/32128-final-word-breast-size-penis-size.html

I am a woman, currently single, and I'm saying that size does NOT matter, it's about communication and how he treats you. I don't say this to make any man "feel better" about his size because I'm not with anyone right now. I am speaking the truth. Anyone that judges anyone based on size is superficial.