[BambiTurburble]

I am so glad to find a forum with mature posters who can help me with some of my questions.

I am not inexperienced in the area of sex, but it has been five very long years since I've been with someone. I don't know how I've gone on this long. But it's getting to the point where I can't take it, but I don't want to just hook up with a random man. However, I've never really pleasured myself. I grew up in a very strict family, where pleasuring yourself is of the devil. So I'm wondering about...well...devices...

Can I use a banana? I mean, they use them quite often in demonstrations on how to put on male contraceptives. And it's organic, so it's got to be good for my body as opposed to latex or plastic, right? I'd appreciate suggestions and answers. Thank you!

Bambi

[caterpillar79]

A banana? whoa.....I wouldn't!

I don't pleasure myself like typical women would also because of my upbringing. To start with, you might want to try touching yourself. In the shower, you may start using your fingers (the "Spider-man fingers" - lol). You may also use a vibrator or a dildo just choose a good material suited for your needs.

Welcome to the forum, btw.

[PureVirgin]

Spider Man fingers??? Is that something I could do for my fiance?

[caterpillar79]

Spider Man fingers??? Is that something I could do for my fiance?

Maybe...."spider man fingers" I just meant your two fingers in the middle....kinda like how good'ol Spidey does when he casts his spider web. LOL.

[GoddessOfLove]

I would think a banana may not be sturdy enough. If you get too overzealous, especially after going without sex for so long, there may be a chance it could start to mush or the skin on it would break and that probably isn't good for your hygiene if you got banana up there, ya know?

[BambiTurburble]

Thank you for the suggestions...but with the spider fingers whatchamacallit...won't I scratch myself? I've got super long fingernails.

[caterpillar79]

You might consider trimming them shorter then.

[BambiTurburble]

But, I like them long...I like long things...

[caterpillar79]

Then do the dildo/vibrator.

[BambiTurburble]

Are there organic dildos and vibrators?