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  • 1234
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 6

    Loss of sexual pleasure:[

    I'm 19 years old and for the past year i havent experienced any sexual pleasure from actually intercourse oral or anything i trust my parent and love him i havent had any emotionally traumatising sexual experiences in fact my past sexual experiences were quite good i had a high sex drive and could orgasm and sex was very pleasurable but now i cant not experience any sexual pleasure ive also had lower abdomonal pain during and after sex and when my partner trys to play with my clit i sometimes get the urge to urinate and it like tickles and i end up shrinking away any ideas on what might be causing this and how to fix it please help
  • waya
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 206

    Are you on birth control or any medications? Loss of libido is a pretty common side effect of many drugs

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    • 1234
      Junior Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 6

      Originally posted by waya
      Are you on birth control or any medications? Loss of libido is a pretty common side effect of many drugs
      no ive only ever used condoms

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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
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        Originally posted by 1234
        when my partner trys to play with my clit i sometimes get the urge to urinate and it like tickles and i end up shrinking away any ideas on what might be causing this and how to fix it please help
        This may be gspot stimulation and is normal.

        What is different from when you enjoyed sex?

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        • 1234
          Junior Member
          • Jul 2009
          • 6

          Originally posted by WildChild
          This may be gspot stimulation and is normal.

          What is different from when you enjoyed sex?
          it felt GOOD before now it doesnt and i could orgasm before there is nothing pleasurable about this...and before there was nerver an aching in my lower stomach afterwards

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