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  • asiangrace
    Veteran Member
    • Nov 2009
    • 281

    Do guys ever...

    ...fake an orgasm?

    I know that women do but was wondering about the guys.

    This is just a question out of pure curiosity!

    Guys, have you ever faked an, "ooooh oooh!!" ??
  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    Read that article from New York magazine, that jns referenced in his thread. It starts with a man talking about faking an orgasm.

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    • asiangrace
      Veteran Member
      • Nov 2009
      • 281

      Which thread??

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      • WildChild
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        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

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        • asiangrace
          Veteran Member
          • Nov 2009
          • 281

          Thanks WildChild!

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Originally posted by asiangrace
            ...fake an orgasm?

            I know that women do but was wondering about the guys.

            This is just a question out of pure curiosity!

            Guys, have you ever faked an, "ooooh oooh!!" ??
            I can honestly answer no. That is not to say I have always had an orgasm, I have not. But I never felt the need to fake it, even if the girl was surprised or disappointed. I have always said it was something I had to work on, not the girl.

            To be truthful, I've had the most problems orgasming with girls who are to me, too pretty. Their physical perfection gave me performance issues even when I was young. But I never faked anything. I could tell after a while when I had locked up and even though we could continue for quite a while, it just wasn't going to happen.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • oxy-moron
              Veteran Member
              • Oct 2010
              • 551

              Not often

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                Nope, not a faker.

                To me, faking is lying and I'm not into lying to the woman I care about at that moment or any other moment.

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                • Tool
                  Member
                  • Jan 2011
                  • 31

                  I have done it a couple times. When is has happened it was because I had masterbated earlier thinking I wasn't getting sex and then we actually had sex. And the condom just killed any sensation and sex was taking forever.

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                  • Mr. Inquisitive
                    Senior Member
                    • May 2010
                    • 102

                    According to Kramer yes, and we all know everything on T.V. is 100% true.

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