[asiangrace]

I did a word search on the forum to make sure I am not duplicating a topic. I did not see it, so I am hoping I am not bringing up an old topic!

Anyway, have you ever masturbated with your SO??

I find it really erotic to masturbate and (try to) climax at the same time. It is a good alternative when I am on my period or if I am exhausted and don't feel like having intercourse. It turns both of us on watching each other. I have asked a couple of my girl friends this and they all say they have never done that with their SO but thought it sounded hot!


I know that this is sticky topic with some people who don't like when their partners masturbate. I, personally, do not mind it at all. In fact, I find it really hot.

Has anyone else done this or am I just really weird?

[WildChild]

I've never had a man express a real interest in this. I've watched them but haven't had them interested in a mutual thing. They've seemed to be much more interested in what they are doing...
AH but men like that are off my radar screen now.

[jns]

I did a word search on the forum to make sure I am not duplicating a topic. I did not see it, so I am hoping I am not bringing up an old topic!

Anyway, have you ever masturbated with your SO??

I find it really erotic to masturbate and (try to) climax at the same time. It is a good alternative when I am on my period or if I am exhausted and don't feel like having intercourse. It turns both of us on watching each other. I have asked a couple of my girl friends this and they all say they have never done that with their SO but thought it sounded hot!


I know that this is sticky topic with some people who don't like when their partners masturbate. I, personally, do not mind it at all. In fact, I find it really hot.

Has anyone else done this or am I just really weird?

As a man I think it would be a turn on, but I have never had a woman masturbate where I could watch. It would take communications to know at what level the other was and when the other was about to climax. Both would have to know how to speed up and how to slow down.

[asiangrace]

As a man I think it would be a turn on, but I have never had a woman masturbate where I could watch. It would take communications to know at what level the other was and when the other was about to climax. Both would have to know how to speed up and how to slow down.

It definitely takes a lot of silent communication - you do not want to be like, "Are you coming yet?" "How about now?" "Now?" etc...haha. Kills the mood - being on the same wavelength, and not something I would recommend to anyone unless they were 100% comfortable with themselves and each other. We have been dating for over two years now and just started doing this within the last year. We have it down where we can climax together almost every time. Sometimes he lets go a little too soon :-) haha.

[d4lly]

yes I've done this with my bf! it's a lot of fun. once we had a competition to see who can climax first :P

[Guest]

I've masturbated for her often, as she finds it to be really hot, and she has masturbated for me, because I also find it to be incredibly enjoyable.

Yes, we've even masturbated simultaneously or together which is pretty amazing also, but honestly, watching her masturbate is the hottest of the three (IMO).

[ItsASecret]

I have not laid beside him in bed trying to get myself to orgasm while he is jackin' away because I do not orgasm quickly while masturbating (can easily take 20-30 minutes). He knows this so we both agree that we will not both be going at it at the same time in hopes we orgasm at the same time but if it does happen then awesome great. But that said I will lay there and rub myself while he watches. He is recently less than a minute man, so if he is wanting to get off quickly and I am just not in the mood for sex per se I will willingly let him watch me because I know he enjoys it.

[Tool]

I have tried this with my Wife and she does not enjoy it at all. She would much rather have me rubbing her and her rubbing me.

But it does really turn me on when she does it to herself, but if she would rather 69 im not going to argue..

[Guest]

It is more of a turn on for me watching my hubby jerk off and him watching me rub myself. It is also a turn on when I jerk him off and he rubs me at the same time. We do this in bed or in the shower, he then shoots his baby batter on my face or stomach.

[njmom3]

My husband and I have been doing this for years -- sometimes when one of us is too tired for intercourse, but also as a change of pace to spice things up a bit. You're right -- it can be very hot. One of the most memorable times was many years ago, at a drive-in movie theater way out in the boondocks that showed X-rated films. We each pushed our seat back and our pants down and masturbated our way through the show. As we've gotten older, it's become a more important part of our sex life together. My libido has heated up, but his has waned a bit, and he has more difficulty getting and staying hard. But he's found that he can masturbate himself to an orgasm with just a partial erection. So when he's hard enough we have lovely intercourse, but when he's not we masturbate together. It takes him longer than it used to to come, which gives me time to have several orgasms, or more. Sometimes it's just functional -- in the dark and under the covers. But sometimes we entertain each other more -- lights on, a slow striptease, stretching across the bed so we can face each other and watch that rising road to orgasm in our faces, and our hands.