[Guest]

I'm a guy and have always wondered why when most girls go down..they don't suck the balls. Why do y'all hate doing this?? Not every girl but most of the ones I've been with absolutely hate it or won't even attempt to.

[OregonGirl]

Well I think probably the number 1 reason would have to be that they don't know or aren't sure of whether or not they are supposed to or should.

Another reason is, hair. Hair on your tongue and down your throat is nasty (imo). I refuse to do it unless my fiance shaves his scrotum.

There is a huge number of men who will not go down on a hairy woman, so why should they expect woman to lick/suck hairy parts on their man?

[WildChild]

Some men like it, some don't.
Some women like doing it and some don't. Some probably know nothing about it.

[ItsASecret]

Another reason is, hair. Hair on your tongue and down your throat is nasty (imo). I refuse to do it unless my fiance shaves his scrotum.

Definitely the hair, and no I am not some woman that embraces 'natural bush'...no...shave it and I will at least lick it. That rogue hair bouncing around in your mouth is not enjoyable, it always manages to get away when you try to take it out and when you think it is gone there it is again either at the back of your tongue or stuck to your throat. However the shaving thing becomes a problem again when there gets to be stubble. It is no fun licking sandpaper or a cactus when it grows back in either.

The other issue is the sweat. That area seems to attract much more sweat and gets forgotten in the wash process. Licking salt, also not enjoyable. Other issue, size of balls. My bf has ones I swear the size of an egg, I will not put one in my mouth. If I do and I accidently gag it will not be a good turn out for him teeth wise so I tell him I will do stuff just not the whole mouth thing. If he asks I will suck on a small area but I will not try to suck on a whole testicle type deal. I dunno, the balls of a guy are simply not the most attractive thing around, feeling wise as well just not a favorite to me so it makes it less appealing to do anything. I mean I will still do stuff and will not put on a disgusted face while I am doing but in my head I am thinking "this is for him not me just make him happy".

[tinyclitt]

I've tried that, but it doesn't seem to do anything for my husband. He does like me to hold his balls though. He likes me to mostly just lick and suck the top third or so of his penis. The rest of it he likes stroked and fondled. I like a totally shaved pubic area and I shave his pubic area (I think it's a sexy thing to do), so it's not hair or anything getting in the way.

[PJhavinfunagain]

Because guys are always scratching them and complaining how sweaty they are... Seriously... doesn't make a sexy picture.

Also as someone else said many do not know that it is OK. Our whole lives we hear how much it hurts a guy to get bumped in the balls. We don't know that holding, squeezing, rubbing and sucking won't hurt you.

[blueclouds]

Hi, well for me, I've never thought about it and it's never been suggested to me. I wouldn't be against it as long as they were kept clean and washed reasonably. I mean, they do get sweaty as has been said.

The hair thing is true too. I wouldn't mind licking hairy haha - I can get hairs off the end area of my tongue/lips easier, but in my mouth? No thanks... I don't eat kiwi skins for the same reason :P. Shaved (or waxed!) would be fine, might even be quite nice...

[Guest]

Well, I shave mine and go crazy when a girl sucks/licks them that's why I asked.

[LanaBear]

Probably the uncertainty of it. They don't know how to play with them, what feels good and if the GUY DOES NOT COMMUNICATE she will never know...

Personally, I LOVE playing with them and he loves it. He also shaves down yonder, so I don't have to worry about flossing while I'm at it.

To be honest, I've never thought about NOT doing it, it's just something I've always done, but he's also good at telling me what he likes and what feels good at the time.

[Hopeless Dork]

I love touching them all kinds of gentle ways and using my mouth on my boyfriends balls -- but i never would have done it if he hadn't let me know it feels good to him. As far as I've heard guys on forums like this say, some like their balls touched , some don't.. some thinking sucking is too intense, some love it... etc... guys are all so different there, that I had never bothered to try in case in what something he didn't like. He is the first guy I've ever really enjoyed pleasing, so he is the first Ive ever ventured into that area with.

If you have a signficant other, simply tell her what you want to feel... chances are she will be like I was -- thrilled to discover a whole new playground that can give good sensations to the guy she loves. If you have no significant other, and are talking about one night stands... unless you get your hands on a very sexually open minded chick... chances are a girl won't do such intimate play with a stranger... generally.


My boyfriend is very hygenic and his whole underwear area is always spring fresh clean when I go down on him... that I feel comfortable resting my face against his naked lap and rubbing and licking everything is awesome and pleasant for me. I strongly suggest you make sure your guys are nice and clean or a girl will definitly not venture very long down there... if at all.