Hello. My husband and I have been married for an year now. What are some techniques we can use to make the sex last longer. He is normally cumming very quickly.
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Use condoms to lessen sensitivity. Have him go for a second orgasm. Have him train to go longer by only doing a few thrusts, then spend time on foreplay for you until he isn't so excited. Then repeat as needed. Tell him he can do more thrusts if he can do it without orgasming. Adjust the number of thrusts to what he was able to do successfully without orgasming. Over time this will train him to hold out longer. Use more lubricant to make things seem looser (less friction).I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
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Thank you for the advice. Ill put it to work tonight.Comment
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Are you having sex while he is tired? Sometimes if you are tired you can have less control, try some daytime action ;-)Comment
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