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  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    You could do the knee pads. They would become other sex toys. If you want to do more squatting style, you could attach a hook and a rope to the ceiling to have more support. If you do, make sure you anchor a strong, large hook into a ceiling joist. You could even try a swing in that case.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • FlamingoThePink
      Member
      • Feb 2011
      • 15

      I would like to be able to have a little restraint and every time I talk myself up to self control, he starts touching me and its all over. I know there have been many numerous occasions when we both tell each other we need to wait longer before we go for it but its almost impossible. Neither of us has been this way with anyone before. Maybe I should be thinking about a chastity belt? lol If anyone has ever been with someone they feel similar to the way I do with my SO, how are/were you able to have a little more self control?

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      • FlamingoThePink
        Member
        • Feb 2011
        • 15

        Originally posted by Seeker_Advice
        Cool ! You feel the same way about your SO as I do about mine, only I'm the male. Restraint is a good thing once you learn it. Can even make the time spent being intimate even better....imagine that!

        How about trying reverse cowgirl?

        I LOVE my intimacy with my partner as much as the next guy but I don't wnat her to get blisters from it. Yikes!
        We have tried reverse cowngirl before but I was never able to get into it as much. Its much sexier being able to hold onto his chest and look at his facial expression and have eye contact and talk to each other than looking at his hairy legs hoping its good for him.

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        • FlamingoThePink
          Member
          • Feb 2011
          • 15

          Originally posted by jns
          You could do the knee pads. They would become other sex toys. If you want to do more squatting style, you could attach a hook and a rope to the ceiling to have more support. If you do, make sure you anchor a strong, large hook into a ceiling joist. You could even try a swing in that case.
          I was hoping I wouldn't have to, but it looks like it may be one of my few options. What kind of knee pads would work for this? I know there are a hundred different varieties to chose from. I used to use knee pads when I used my toy that has a suction cup. I have hard wood floors and I was able to pop it on the floor and get these horrid looking knee pads I had in my closet out. They had a long strap the would hook to the other side but they would always come unhooked. Are there knee pads without the straps?

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          • oxy-moron
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2010
            • 551

            Go to a skateboard shop- Knee protectors sold there pull on and are elasticised.
            The other thing you can do is use rubbing alcohol on your knees for a few weeks- this will toughen the skin- may not look that attractive though.

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            • JanieMarie
              Member
              • Aug 2012
              • 29

              Originally posted by FlamingoThePink
              Maybe I should be thinking about a chastity belt? lol If anyone has ever been with someone they feel similar to the way I do with my SO, how are/were you able to have a little more self control?
              I know you probably mean it as a joke but chastity devices are very real and very useful. Only, it's the man who wears them nowdays. I keep my guy in a ******* and it helps a TON with his self control.

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              • JonDoe
                Veteran Member
                • Sep 2010
                • 444

                Sit him in a chair and straddle him, either forward or reverse.

                Tell him to lay on the floor and straddle him with your knees bent and feet on the floor.

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