[roseherald]

hey, just a quick question..
my best friend absolutely HATES pubes and says that I should shave completey. I cant tell if my boyfriend is just putting up with mine because he doesn't want to say anything. I mean, I don't have a bush, and i trim down there, but i don't want to completely shave, it would make me feel like a little girl. Do you think you should shave completely? is pubic hair a turn-off?

[x.st.angel.x]

I guess it just depends, i personally just trim as you say i dont want to feel like a little girl but i suppose theres no harm in trying other things. Maybe just ask your boyfriend what he thinks?

[FlamingoThePink]

I'm new to this site but I glanced at your post and had to comment.

Your best friend thinks its gross because society says its gross and that is what she probably grew up thinking. There is hair there for a reason but each to his own. I'm assuming your best friend doesn't look at your goods and do the deed with you so why would her opinion matter? I think if your boyfriend thought it was gross, he wouldn't be intimate with you. I get pretty scary razor burn if I shave so I trim also. A neatly trimmed landing pad is better than a prickly moose knuckle

[Guest]

This subject has been discussed at length, so perhaps you can do a search and read the many opinions and thoughts that have already been given.

It has nothing to do with looking like a little girl and it's all about personal preference.

As a man, I prefer the woman I am crazy about to be clean shaven, have even offered to pay for brazilian's, which she prefers but are quite expensive, so she declines and just shaves. What's MOST IMPORTANT (to me) is that I support her in whatever decision SHE makes concerning HER body.

It's HER body and I am honored that she shares it with me!

Bald, trimmed, bushy....none of these are going to prevent me from giving her the oral she enjoys and the oral I love to give.

[Jimbeau]

This subject has been discussed at length

Now that's punny!

[Yamimi]

Everyone has their opinion. I don't like to shave, but my bf likes it when I do. So, I keep it trimmed to satisfy both of us Lmao. At least he hasn't complained about it yet.

[nick1]

I prefer it shaved and I do the same for her.

[jns]

Love a lot of pubic hair, or not or in between. Each way is different, but all are good.

[Guest]

I agree, a shaved vulva is nothing like being a little girl. A lot of men prefer it because it accentuates the flatness and the slit that you ladies have there. This is the opposite of what we have and therefore that's why we are attracted to it. When you have a thick bush, well, you could have a penis and testes underneath couldn't you? But, it's all down to personal preference. Do what feels good for you. Ask your boyfriend what he prefers and shave if he and you both want it.

[Neurotic]

Mild preference for shaven, but I'm really not fussed. I know most of my peers have the same opinion, but that may be a generation/society thing.

I don't think it matters at all really, don't dwell on it.