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I've been having sex for (eeek) 40 years as of this coming fall and have very rarely had a need to heal after sex. What you are doing that this is a concern.
My guess would be that you are either not well lubricated whicm may mean not fully aroused or you have some sort of low grade infection that is causing irritation. -
Whoever you're having sex with shouldn't be hurting you in the first place. Is he too big? Too rough? What kind of pain are you experiencing?
I used to experience tearing on my inner labia. Everyday, I had to wash with water and it made the healing a bit faster. Eventually I got tired of it so we had to try a new approach cause I was never wet enough.Comment
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My bf and I used to get sore all the time. But once we started using lube, we haven't been sore since. It's great![COLOR="#ff00ff"][FONT="Franklin Gothic Medium"]"A loving heart is the truest wisdom"-Charles Dickens[/FONT]
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