[nic22]

I get really turned on by the thought of women accidently seeing my unit. Or wanting to see it. Im not a nudest but I find it a big turn on for some reason. Example, I go to a friends house from time to time swimming in the summer. When im changing and I know she or any female are in the house or area I am I leave the door open just a crack so if they looked they could see. I guess its a rush and some what taboo? Anyone else do this. I can't put my finger on it but somthing about the entire idea turns me on.

[Guest]

To me, for you, it seems more about the "fear' or "risk" of getting "caught" naked. My SO and I have shared intimacy in some pretty public places and the "fear/risk" of being seen or gtting caught by strangers tends to heighten the excitement of it all.

As for being nude like ata nudist resort, that's something altogether different. There is nothing arousing (for me) about spending time at a nudist resort. Something "freeing" perhaps...is that even a word? butt nothing to get aroused about.

Being nude, in a social setting, like a nudist resort, in front of strangers, who are also nude, and in all different shapes, sizes and ages is interesting.

I am most comfortable at adults only nudist resorts.

[cathygirl]

I tend to be somewhat of an exhibitionist, so yes, I understand. When it starts to make other people uncomfortable, though, it's a paraphilia and it's a problem.

[PinkySweet]

I find it kind of creepy lol, but hey its whatever you like.

I would feel violated if someone was watching me, but I guess if you know your being watched and want it to happen, its different.

[Hopeless Dork]

Leaving a door cracked on purpose hoping to be seen is pushing it, but going out of your way to expose yourself to unsuspecting females could wind you up in trouble. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at / watched - its called exhibitionism -- and there are many outlets you could use where you show yourself off to people that are actually WANTING to see what you are showing, such as with a girlfriend thats into it, or via some craigslist casual encounter or webcamming sites, etc...

You have to keep in mind that the vast majority of women going on about their day don't want to be confronted with the sight of just any man's penis -- its not like it is with men who would probably love to bump into a nude situation... most women need to have an interest in a man before the site of his penis does anything for them.

For me I would be embarrassed, shocked, disturbed or possibly all three if some random guy exposed himself to me. I would not be aroused at all. My question is... is it that you just want someone to see you? Or is the fact that its someone that is being surprised by seeing you that turns you on most? If its the first... thats pretty common, if its the latter... you should keep it to fantasy and or roleplay.

I like being watched, but by my boyfriend... and before I met him I like dancing around and goofing off on cam sites for the attention etc... so its not that I think wanting to be looked at is strange... i think its just not cool to force someone to see something they had no intention of seeing.

[WildChild]

You setting yourself up for trouble with this. HD is right, most women would regard that kind of exposure as disturbing.

Years ago I had a man expose himself in an odd way. He watched me from his window as I was working outside. The window was posistioned in such a way that the entire room was visible, he proceded to sit a chair, facing the window, with the drapes wide open and masterbate while watching me in the very uninteresting pasttime of sweeping a patio. My reaction? Nothing I hadn't seen before and he had nothing to get excited about. If you want insults or chats with the police, keep it up.

Its quite another matter as a way of flirting with an SO. That can be alluring and arousing.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Have to say, before reading the above, the first word that came to mind was "exhibitionist"...

Your question pertaining in a committed relationship yeah, I will even walk into the bedroom when he's having a shower and he laughs..

But, if you are thinking like this now, amongst a "few" woman, imagine if you decide to take it further into other scenarios and get called on it...

CW

[nic22]

No I think some people on here are thinking im being a flasher. Jumping out and opening my coat or somthing. No its nothing like that. Im not forceing anyone to look at anything. Im just saying the thought of somone looking (IF they want to Look). No where did I say im forceing somone to look and im not even saying anyone can see or has seen I don't know. By no means would I stand and stare out of my house at a women and masturbate. Im talking about somthing totally differerent.

[WildChild]

LOL
Ok, just be safe is what we are saying.

[Tahoe]

I live in a remote area. I like walking around the house naked with the curtains open. I always have a pair of shorts handy just in case I need to go to the door. If someone happens to see me I will just go with the flow and say sorry, but I won't answer the door naked. I am aware of what reaction a naked man's body has on some women. If women would have the same reaction to the oppisite sex as men I would answer the door naked every time.