[Iris04]

Okay for some background: my hubby and I have been married for 7 years. We had tons of sex in the beginning (2-3 times per day), but it has dwindled down over the years. I've had 2 children, a job, etc. and haven't had the time for sex that I would like to.

Anyway, to the problem at hand. Hubby and I were having sex and 2, maybe 3 minutes in, he jumps up as if he is startled, says "Be right back, I have to pee", and runs out of the room. I jumped up as well to make sure he was okay since he left the room in such a hurry, only to find that he came in the toilet. First of all, him coming that quickly is odd in itself, but second of all, why the toilet? That has NEVER happened before. I came back to bed a few minutes after he did, just to find that he was faking being asleep and wouldn't give me any reason as to why he did that.

I know it had to have happened for a reason, but it kind of made me feel bad, almost as if the toilet was more worthy of his sperm than I was. I don't get it.

Any opinion or insight would be much appreciated. Thanks for reading!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

2, 3, minutes, hey at least he was excited, felt good and wanted to cum.

But, what man likes to do that so quickly? Yet can get an erection again, and last longer and not be embarrassed..

I think that may be your answer........

[stressed]

I doubt he did it on purpose. He must have pretended to be asleep afterwards out of embarrassment. Better not bring it up as it might cause him anxiety. See what happens next time

[jns]

Okay for some background: my hubby and I have been married for 7 years. We had tons of sex in the beginning (2-3 times per day), but it has dwindled down over the years. I've had 2 children, a job, etc. and haven't had the time for sex that I would like to.

Anyway, to the problem at hand. Hubby and I were having sex and 2, maybe 3 minutes in, he jumps up as if he is startled, says "Be right back, I have to pee", and runs out of the room. I jumped up as well to make sure he was okay since he left the room in such a hurry, only to find that he came in the toilet. First of all, him coming that quickly is odd in itself, but second of all, why the toilet? That has NEVER happened before. I came back to bed a few minutes after he did, just to find that he was faking being asleep and wouldn't give me any reason as to why he did that.

I know it had to have happened for a reason, but it kind of made me feel bad, almost as if the toilet was more worthy of his sperm than I was. I don't get it.

Any opinion or insight would be much appreciated. Thanks for reading!

How often do you two have sex? Do you also include manual and oral sex? Both of you can work on exercises to get him to last longer if this becomes too common. Talk to him about him giving to you what he's got if he continues running to the bathroom. Is he afraid of having more children?

[oxy-moron]

Hi
He may have been telling the truth - his prostate controls both Orgasm and urination.
How old is he - I am guessing early 30s- probably too early for prostate issues from DHT but he may have an infection. Maybe he felt a bit of a confused feeling and ran to the toilet thinking he may need to pee but it was ejaculation- just embarrassing.
Just as an aside he should be looking after his prostate anyway. If you live in a place where the winters are harsh he should be supplementing with vitamin D3 during the winter.
VitaminD3 has been linked to higher prostate and breast cancer rates in regions with poor winter sun. Good girl for being vigilant.

[WildChild]

Hi


VitaminD3 has been linked to higher prostate and breast cancer rates in regions with poor winter sun. Good girl for being vigilant.

I think you mean vitamin D3 deficiency?

[oxy-moron]

oops- sorry yes- can you edit it please.

[WildChild]

LOL we've got it covered. You know that the current recommended daily dose of D3 is way low it should be 1000-2000 units depending on your diet and how much you get out in the natural light?

[oxy-moron]

Thanks - Yes I think supplementing with Vitamin D might be the single most important thing you can do for your health. From improvements to bone health in the elderly , protection form heart problems to protection form cancer.

[WildChild]

it has certainly made a difference for me.