[vroomy]

I see this as him not having much of a sex drive. If he did he would be innovative about having sex and want it a lot more. Maybe it is the staying with his parents.

Thanks for the response. I do think his drive is a little lower than mine but over all it hasn't been an issue. Even if we don't have sex we do have a lot of intimacy in holding each other and showing support for one another.

After all these years together I assume you two can talk about your desires openly. And I do understand not wanting, or able, to have sex in your parents house. My wife, then 21 yo girlfriend, wasn't comfortable doing that either, luckily I had my own home.
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It's helpful to hear the way that other people have worked situations out. thank you