[Necia]

so you think i need to talk about this - like i would talk about wanting to buy a kayak or something?

YES!

"So I've been considering buying a kayak. And tying you up tonight. Thoughts?"




But seriously, yes. Just talk about it. That would be the best idea in my opinion. The conversation could be both enlightening and sexy. Talk is good foreplay, you know.

Good luck!

[soldatka]

decision maker, i can be.

so you think i need to talk about this - like i would talk about wanting to buy a kayak or something? not just surprise her one day with a shot from left field?

A shot from left field is the last thing I'd do LOL! Because you might just pick something that doesn't float her boat at all...whereas if you really talk, you'll find something that does the trick for both of you. And the talking and planning can be pretty hot, so it is double the fun.