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Of course it's all right to not want to have sex, no matter if you're on your period or not
Hello Ladies, I need your help. I have just recently started dating this guy, who I feel is finally the right guy for me. However, I asked him to come over this weekend cause it was my birthday and I wanted him to spend the weekend with me. Friday when he came over, I started my period early, 3 days early to be exact. I felt kinda stupid, cause when we got into bed and started going at it, but I had to stop and tell him, that I had gotten my period earlier than expected and that I wasn't in to intercourse. So to make up for it, I gave him a hand job and oral, but I felt kinda stupid and guilty, cause I wanted to have full on sex with him, but not while I was on the rag. Is this normal, to not want to have full on intercourse while menstruating? Or should I have done it anyway?
If however you do feel like it, in my experience most guys don't really care if you're on your period or not. Just make sure to let them know first, then hop in the shower to throw a towel down!
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dont worry
there is nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex with him while your on, its the first time you were goin to sleep with him anyway so that is throwing yourself in at the deep-end.
you played it safe and you gave him pleasure so he will he you as someone who doesnt just think of themself, so he will respect you for it.
maybe later on in the relationship and you both are really up for it and you happend to be on then you may want to.
good luck!
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