[Tod121]

Hi Chitown, easier said than done but try to relax and enjoy it, he knows its your 1st time and this will be his big thrill too, its his 1st time with you! I have been with my wife for almost 19 years and only cum in her mouth once, she didnt show any negative response from it but neither of us need to "finish" this way, we always use oral sex as foreplay. I would cum in her mouth again if she said she wanted me to but I truley dont need to finish a BJ this way. I read on another link here that most blokes DONT tend to cum during a BJ. I agreed with what has been previously said, try to avoid any contact with your teeth BUT if it happens a bit, it wont spoil things. A nice wet BJ will be great, he will provide a little lubrication with some pre-cum and you can add plenty of saliva. Visuals are very stimulating, for me a sexy lacey bra with a good view of cleavage turns me on but a real sure fire turn on would be to make eye contact every now and then with a naughty\nice smile!!!! God, I wanna go home now a get one myself ;-). Good luck!

[ltsang]

My wife won't give me blowjobs. She says it nasty. :'(

[Guest]

I applaud the women that go the extra mile to please the men in your lives. This is something my wife has refused to do after we got married and I miss it very badly. She won't even let me do her-

[ltsang]

I applaud the women that go the extra mile to please the men in your lives. This is something my wife has refused to do after we got married and I miss it very badly. She won't even let me do her-

Same here man. I hardly have sex. Maybe once in a while. She say that when the sperm came out it can hurt or damage your body. So now I'm having sex less and less everyday. I want a bj from my wife, but no luck. Markt we need to get a new women. lol My wife and I fights alot too. Now with the baby at the home each time I do wrong things she yells or abuse me.

[kristalyn_04]

She say that when the sperm came out it can hurt or damage your body.

That's a load of carp. IDK where she got that from. Sounds like just an excuse to me.

[Guest]

Wildchild describes the job perfectly, (thanks,i think I need to change my underwear now!) especially where she says touch lightly on the penis in the build up, and then a slightly firmer grip when you want him to ejaculate. But please, most men will not like you yanking it or holding it too tight !

[Guest]

If you look at as a "Job" you're headed in the wrong direction, it should not be looked at as a "Job" it's something that you both should enjoy...

[JRod]

I'm going to go against all conventional wisdom and suggest a technique that I probably shouldn't as it is probably a little advanced and everyone else will disagree. TEETH. I have ALWAYS heard and Even Agreed for years that teeth have No place in a BJ. BUT, IF done properly can add a very unique and amazing touch. We actually discovered it by accident. The pressure must be ever so light so as not to scrape or hurt but if you can do it......OOOOOHHHHH boy!!!! It' awesome;-)
Furthermore you can youtube Gary Owen (Mike Epps show) and find where he talks about "superhead" and "grinding the pepper" lmao. That's pretty good too haha.

[LanaBear]

TEETH. I have ALWAYS heard and Even Agreed for years that teeth have No place in a BJ. BUT, IF done properly can add a very unique and amazing touch. We actually discovered it by accident. The pressure must be ever so light so as not to scrape or hurt but if you can do it......OOOOOHHHHH boy!!!! It' awesome;-)

I very much agree here... I use my teeth and have never had any complaints, it's just a different sensation. However, I think you need to be skilled or have experience in giving a blow job before even going down that path, lol. Someone who is new to giving blow jobs, lol, or asking how to give blow jobs probably shouldn't be even thinking about how to use her teeth at that point.

But yes, I've read it many times, don't use your teeth, don't use your teeth, no teeth, etc... Meh, if you know what you are doing and how to do it and your man is comfortable with it, then go right on ahead.

[JRod]

High 5 Lana Bear!!!