[waya]

Ok, just to be honest here I have talked to close friends before and mentioned a man's size but that's not really what the conversation was about. It was more like logistics and tips. ie Because of his size this position is uncomfortable or that position doesn't really work, is there another way to get that feeling? But we didn't actually want to swap info on our men's packages.

[spurzzz]

It seems like it may be your way to deal with the insecurities you have in regards to sex -------- to relive the fulfillment in a fantasy/other peoples eyes and experiences.

I would concentrate on geting yourself better, working on any issues that only you know are preventing you from enjoying sex. Could the problem stem from a negative self-image which can lead to poor self esteem and so on.....

Our experiences to a degree shape the way we act and think today. Spend too much time lingering onto other peoples experiences and you will have little time to make your own.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

See yourself as a man, reverse it, does he want his woman to have fantasies of other men, yet he respects that, embrases that and says no one owns anyone in life?

Sounds family to a recent thread by a man only reverse.

CW

[Guest]

BTW - Men who talk about their intimacy with their partner/SO/spouse to other men, are not men at all, but pigs - IMO.

[jns]

Ok, just to be honest here I have talked to close friends before and mentioned a man's size but that's not really what the conversation was about. It was more like logistics and tips. ie Because of his size this position is uncomfortable or that position doesn't really work, is there another way to get that feeling? But we didn't actually want to swap info on our men's packages.

Sounds like the jokes about getting lost while driving, where the women ask for directions and the men don't.