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  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    Originally posted by Kay01
    We've had sex several times and the thing is, I can always feel it pretty well which is extremely odd for me as I get so lubricated, I generally can't feel sex at all. It isn't bad sex at all and he can go for quite awhile which is a nice change from my ex.
    This says everything you need to be concerned with.

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      Originally posted by spurzzz
      In retrospect, you are actually saying size does matter to women or some women at least. It seems those who may have experienced a different more sensational high with a bigger penis feel very let down if that area cannot be fulfilled. It then, I suppose, depends on the strength of character for the woman in question as to whether or not she can look at all the other positives in that man and find another area of excitement within that area...

      So you can have too big a penis and too small a penis and too thin a penis and too thick a penis!..............they may as well have us on display at the supermarket lol

      For me, its so sad a thought that us guys worry about what our sexual partner thinks about the size of our manhood.
      Size shouldn't really matter, but to some it does. Guys have to be comfortable in their own body and be willing to say "next" if they are unhappy with a woman fixated on size. I've never worried and I've never been with a woman who thought my average length was a problem. These days I am not a skinny guy. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who thought my body shape was a problem. It is not a problem, just a choice.

      The op said sex was good, but then she shrank from his physical attributes. What is with that? I don't think she is shallow, but her reaction is somewhat contradictory. But, she probably will not be happy in the long run unless she gets rid of that requirement or changes relationships.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • Texinator
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 5556

        Originally posted by Kay01
        Any advice on how to make this less awkward?
        Yup, stop caring about his size.

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        • spurzzz
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2011
          • 246

          Originally posted by jns
          Size shouldn't really matter, but to some it does. Guys have to be comfortable in their own body and be willing to say "next" if they are unhappy with a woman fixated on size. I've never worried and I've never been with a woman who thought my average length was a problem. These days I am not a skinny guy. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who thought my body shape was a problem. It is not a problem, just a choice.

          The op said sex was good, but then she shrank from his physical attributes. What is with that? I don't think she is shallow, but her reaction is somewhat contradictory. But, she probably will not be happy in the long run unless she gets rid of that requirement or changes relationships.
          Yes most definately. The term problem can be overused. It is only a problem to the person doing the worrying. Sex is more then just thumping away, the physical act of making love is so much more and so the size of someones genitals should not be a problem if the 2 people concerned are willing to adjust and learn everything about each other inside and out.

          Plus if someone is on the small side then they should look at the positives rather then the stereotypical negatives. Aspects such as you won't be able to "hurt" or tear the partner as such or during oral she will be able to put the penis all in her mouth which some big people don't get to experience!
          I am going to tell you what you don't want to hear!
          Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't

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          • Guest

            Listen, I'm a dude. Yes, i suffer from having a small penis. Not that I mind having a small penis, but every girl ive been with does mind, unfortunately... Some girls actually had the nerve to laugh at it, *******s... :/ So, in my experience, unfortunately, size DOES matter. Ive been denied sex even tho it was right in front of me 5 out of 5 times, strictly because of my size. Btw, if you really wanna know, may b unnecessary to say, but ill just say it... Hard, I am about 3 1/4 inches. Tell me girls, reply to my post. What do u think of my size? Would it be a deal breaker? Be 100% honest with me... And maybe some advice...Cuz im starting to not be able to deal with my size anymore. I might resort to eXtenze pills. Girls think my penis is halarious, it's not a joke to me...AT ALL!

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            • CHANDLERS WISH
              • Mar 2008
              • 22440

              Hey randomhero how old are you?

              I am feeling youngish and these girls are way immature, they are promiscuious if it's 5 out of 5 only looking for a good time and if they laugh? Then do you really want that type of girl in your life anyway, let alone finding you attractive enough to get you in the bedroom but not wanting to even to get know you, it's all about sex You can do with out those women get what I am saying?

              We are not wrong, I've had a man your size more than once, given my age and the first one bought me to the most orgasmic experience I have ever had back then, in my life, I jumped him and couldn't stop and that is the truth... Why? Because he learn't the art of oral and our lady parts shrink, accomodate, feel orgasmic when that happens.

              So resort to learning Tex's clitical thinking... Look it up, advanced search on the right hand side above and pick the right girls as well.

              Welcome.

              CW
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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              • CHANDLERS WISH
                • Mar 2008
                • 22440

                pfttt randomhero just claimed he was a female on another thread, "deleted" TROLL you can't be both, go play elsewhere...
                PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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