[shellers]

I feel the same aboit my relationship but after 2 years I decided I guess he really is ok with me I weigh 260lb and I'm short my bf weighs 145lb soaking wet and he is more comfertable wit me naked then I am it really is just trust so just enjoy it forget wat he thinks u sit back and enjoy it

[whit4488]

im a big girl too, im 5'5 about 275lbs and i look about 230 maybe, i carry the weight well throughout my body...however im insecure about it. i know i want and need to lose some weight and i would have a better sex life, but in the mean time, i try to wear a sexy teddy (lingerie) that covers my stomach but shows my boobs so that he can get a good picture while im on top...try that! they really only care about seeing your beautiful breasts and how you work it!

[Guest]

Let me tell you something and please take this to heart. If youre a plus size woman, strut your stuff! Men, including me find plus size women to be a huge turn on. I don't care what size a woman is, it's all in her attitude. Don't cover anything up when you're on top of your man, let him get a great view of all the woman he loves so much. Don't hold back, let him see that you are comfortable with him and truly enjoying all the things that make you feel so good. Right after you lay back down next to him, tell him You're Welcome! He will be so excited he might just come right there on the spot. I'm telling you- we men sure do love a confident woman who enjoys herself on top of us. I'm getting all worked up just thinking about it~ My O My a sexy teddy!!! God those feel great against my skin when a woman wears them, feels good all under as well! Used to get teased with them a very long time ago, My O My is all I can say Ohhh LAA Laa!!!

[twizzie]

Aw thanks guys. Recently I've been feeling better about it. So has he :P

[Guest]

Great!!!! I'm glad to hear this! You should just let go of all the negatives and concentrate on that orgasm, I bet he really enjoys seeing you enjoying it. I know when my wife is on top, the view is wonderful and the noises she makes gets me all kinds of excited.

[aj2sheds]

It's great that you're feeling better about this Twizzie I know exactly how you feel as I am bigger too and it took quite a while before I could take my boyfriend at his word when he said he liked me on top. Whit4488's suggestion about some sexy semi-covering lingerie is great for an extra shot of confidence if you feel like you need it; there's nothing quite like rocking a sexy teddy or cami. But in the end, it comes down to this - there are thousands of women your bf could be with, but he's with YOU and he stays with YOU for a reason

[twizzie]

^_^ this is true. I absolutely agree 100 percent! I know he chooses me over all others because now hee cringes whenever there's a sex scene in a movie with a skinny girl...he always says that he would get bruised from having sex with a skinny girl. (the boney-ness of it)
and his ex-Fbuddy has been trying to get back into touch with him ahem and hes turned her down alot.
yay!

[Guest]

Make him the center of your sexual world and he will never want to go back to her- EVER!!! The way to a man's heart isn't through his stomach, it's through his penis. Believe me, I know! Glad to hear you are feeling better about yourself.

I'm in the process of working on my wife's self confidence and her self esteem issues. Seems like all I say floats through both ears and never gets heard.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

twizzie, I can't deny that "people" do have preferences, or that they have for a better word a "type" but the real person actually looks deeper, inside the person they are with and in that, falls in love with the inner self.

If that is your photo, you are a beautiful lady.. Focus on letting her shine, in every way, shape and form and you'll never have to worry about the outer you..

CW

[cocoa]

Yeah, you're a beautiful woman. I wouldn't doubt his desire or sexual interest in you.