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  • Mrs.Mcdonald
    Junior Member
    • May 2011
    • 7

    To much cum to handle!

    I have been with my husband for 10 years and I love giving him a blow job. The only problem is when it is time for him to cum it is so much that I can't take it all in. He get upset because he wants me to. I tried once and almost chocked to death! How can I please him and stay alive at the same time?
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    Don't try to swallow it all. Any man that dictates this to a woman doesn't deserve the job done. The fact that you are giving him a b/j and you are willing to swallow some (yes, this can be a nice feeling for a man) is good enough. You sound like a giving person.

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      This is one of those things you just do and its hard to say how. Like trying to explain the finer points of using a clutch after you've been driving one for years.
      You can just let some of it dribble out of the side of your mouth.
      You don't have have him all the way into your mouth, let your hand(s) take part of his penis and you won't feel so much like you are going to choke or drown.
      I no longer drink beer but if you've ever chugged one down? It's kind of the same thing with swallowing cum, you just let it slide on down. Don't try to hold his penis and his ejaculate all in your mouth and then swallow. If he is a smoker or his diet causes his ejaculate to taste bad or to burn (smokers does) you just may have to tell him that while you are happy to pleasure him, you can't have his ejaculate in you mouth until until he makes some changes and have ejaculate elsewhere depending on what you are comfortable with.
      You can peak him, get him almost there and then mount him.

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