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  • nickeled
    Junior Member
    • May 2011
    • 1

    Small penis question..

    Im sure you are all tired of reading these but I have no where else to turn. My penis is small, something like 3 inches, and I know well I couldn't please a woman with what I have. What the are my options? I want to get married one day and have a family but I just can see a woman marrying a guy with a penis this small. Im not one of those men who has low self esteem, Im just being real, Im genetically screwed. I mean not to offend anyone, but, I had to stop going out with ladies my race (black) because they all seemed to be size queens. I always hear things like "9inches or better".. It jus worries me... your thoughts?
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373



    Read that thread. 31 pages of reassurance that the size of your penis does not matter to most women who care about YOU as a PERSON.

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    • oxy-moron
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2010
      • 551

      Also go to Wikipedia to get assurance on penis size issues- Self reporting on size is apparently well overstated.
      Actual average size is 5 to 6 inches.
      A study published in the December 2000 International Journal of Impotence Research found that average erect penis length in 50 Jewish Caucasian males was 13.6 cm (5.35 in) (measured by staff).
      One thing that I have always wondered about is that if a girl has her knees up I can feel the nearly the entire inside of her vagina with a 3.5 inch finger.
      Girth is apparently more important, and I suspect your pubic bone is most important of all.(Learn how to use your pubic bone for clitoral stimulation and you will be a lot better off.

      All the best

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      • cathygirl
        Senior Member
        • Dec 2010
        • 108

        Originally posted by nickeled
        Im sure you are all tired of reading these but I have no where else to turn. My penis is small, something like 3 inches, and I know well I couldn't please a woman with what I have. What the are my options?
        How about trying to please yourself then? You're thinking about it all wrong, if I can humbly suggest that...

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        • Crystalblue
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2011
          • 675

          I think most men worry about six too much. Personally, that's never been one of my concerns & it looks like most women on here are the same. I'm much more impressed by how a person makes me feel & how they treat me. Pleasing a woman isn't hard if there is a loving and caring relationship.

          I've been married for going on 9 years and me & my husband just recently got into exploring "toys". I saw that they make a weird looking penis extention that you could consider, but that seems like something that would be more fun with someone you're completely comfortable with. We haven't used anything like that because, like I said, size really isn't what pleases most women.

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          • punchdrunkloved
            Member
            • May 2011
            • 21

            It is NOT about the size...it is about how you use it honey. I have been with men that are well endowed and I truly believe that they thought it made them good lovers by default, it didn't. My husband is average and I had never experienced orgasms (and multiples) like I do with him. Not to mention he likes to experiment in bed too. If you focus on her needs and not your perceived stature it will make for sizzling nights in bed. Confidence is the key, you are perfectly built for some lucky lady out there!!!!

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            • vicky1411
              Junior Member
              • Dec 2010
              • 4

              my previous partner was very well endowed (10inches) but I have had much better sex with my fiance who is 6 inches, we have been together 9 years, we also have sex toys of various sizes and the small one's give just as good an orgasm as the bigs ones

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              • emeraldwings
                Member
                • May 2011
                • 29

                my husband's is small. he told me himself before we went out and i didn't mind. his is thick thought. he said it's cause he eats a lot of proteins. i don't know if that's what you wanna try. but good luck.

                and if the girl you find really loves you, she wouldn't care about that fact at all..

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                • emeraldwings
                  Member
                  • May 2011
                  • 29

                  my husband's is small. he told me himself before we went out and i didn't mind. his is thick thought. he said it's cause he eats a lot of proteins. i don't know if that's what you wanna try. but good luck.

                  and if the girl you find really loves you, she wouldn't care about that fact at all..

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                  • CHANDLERS WISH
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 22440


                    LANABEAR
                    Read that thread. 31 pages of reassurance that the size of your penis does not matter to most women who care about YOU as a PERSON.

                    We've answered you haven't good advice Lana.

                    Thread closed....
                    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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