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  • haileylemazing
    Junior Member
    • May 2011
    • 1

    pain only at the begining of sex

    okay so for the last few weeks when me and my guy get into it, it hurts, ridicusly bad at first, normally it only hurts a little bit then its fine, but lately its worse and lasts longer then the few seconds it did before. i know it's not caused by a lack of dryness, but i would like to have an idea of what it is.
  • LanaBear
    Veteran Member
    • Jul 2009
    • 8373

    You say it is not caused by a lack of dryness, but are you thoroughly aroused? Sometimes, still, you can be wet enough and not quite be ready...

    He's he larger than what you are used to?
    How long have you been with him?
    Have you had an exam lately?

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    • ccraig42
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 250

      It could be bacterial vaginosis...or a bladder infection. This is only talking from personal experience, though. Are there any other symptoms?

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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

        There are 3 ligaments that hold the uterus in place. With arousal these act to actually lift and move the uterus to allow more room for the penis. If you are not adequately aroused the unaroused position of the uterus may cause you pain.

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