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I've been married almost 6 months but have never had rough sex. We are more the slow and savory type and he is too big for me to take it all inside me. Last night on a whim, I asked him to take me, rough sex, do anything he wanted to me. I'm usually on top so I can ease off if it gets too deep or hurts too much, this time I was on the bottom.

He started out slow and careful in the missionary position. I was enjoying it until he started getting really turned on and started going faster and deeper. I was in real pain when he hit the bottom, I was in tears and almost ready to tell him to stop when he scooted up and thrust in at a different angle and went all the way in. I had never before been able to get him all inside me. It was the strangest feeling like he was stretching my insides, it didn't hurt but was electrifying.

I wonder if somehow he had penetrated my cervix because it had never went in that far before. Whatever happened, I liked it and would like to do it again minus the painful part.

[WildChild]

No I very much doubt he penetrated your cervix. More likely he found the just the right angle. Your uterus and bladder are held in place by your PC muscles and some ligaments. When you are fully aroused and engorged your uterus pulled back to allow more room. Sounds like, despite your pain, everything coordinated the way it should and it worked.

[Guest]

Like your husband, my wife can't take it all at any angle. I'm not into rough sex and at times, like you, she wants it kind of forceful. I'm just not built for that- I like the slow and easy. It's a tough situation because I want to do what pleases her, but I'm afraid I will hurt her and that makes it longer in between times. Sometimes for long extended dry spells, I don't like that part at all. She is always on top and at times I have to tilt my pelvis so she doesn't get hurt from her thrusting on me so hard. I let her set the pace and whatever she likes, but I don't want her to ever hurt from it. Only once have I been completely inside her, and that was when our son was conceived. She hurt for a very long time from it, but at the same time said she loved the feeling of my balls pressing against her vagina

[jns]

I've been married almost 6 months but have never had rough sex. We are more the slow and savory type and he is too big for me to take it all inside me. Last night on a whim, I asked him to take me, rough sex, do anything he wanted to me. I'm usually on top so I can ease off it it gets too deep or hurts too much, this time I was on the bottem.

He started out slow and careful in the missionary position. I was enjoying it until he started getting really turned on and started going faster and deeper. I was in real pain when he hit the bottom, I was in tears and almost ready to tell him to stop when he scooted up and thrust in at a different angle and went all the way in. I had never before been able to get him all inside me. It was the strangest feeling like he was stretching my insides, it didn't hurt but was electrifying.

I wonder if somehow he had penetrated my cervix because it had never went in that far before. Whatever happened, I liked it and would like to do it again minus the painful part.

Have him scoot up in the future and experiment on full penetration without pain. Good luck.